@cowgirl836....thank you for all that. I had forgotten that LilMiss pooped in the front yard. Hell just yesterday LilWx got home from school, left his bike in front of the door and ran around to the side of the house to pee because it was an emergency....
In three year old pre school he had to pee at recess and did the little boy pants pulled all the way down on a tree. I think I had shown him that trick recently and we have been fighting him to go inside when he needs to go ever since.
Saw a 3-4 yo boy at the State Fair, cowboy hat & cowboy boots, pull his shorts down and just pee in the grass. Heard it before I saw it. He must've hung back from the responsible adult, for they were nowhere to be seen. I sighed, and understood this boy had been taught to do this on his home farm/ranch, but had not been told when NOT to do it.
I had to make an "after hours" call (at least for me) about work, and due to miscommunication, on whoever's part (partially mine...just a smidge), I'm about ready to punch a wall. Can't be resolved until Monday at the soonest, but I need it resolved yesterday.