For the inquiring minds that want to know:
First off, my wife and I have had our share of friction since getting married. It isn't that she doesn't get along with some of my family, but she isn't the hugest fan of them. I love her family, and they adore me, so that makes it harder for her to not get along with mine. She feels like I have two families, and she still only has one, and at times accuses her family of treating me better than her. What can I say -- people love me:wubclub:
All joking aside, the biggest issue has been infertility problems, which have been like a tornado in our marital trailer park. Neither of our faults, but still very tough...
My wife used to complain quite a bit about her job and thought about looking for another one, and then suddenly stopped, sounding more positive about going to work and her co-workers. She started texting a lot more at night while we were around the house, even when we were out to dinner sometimes, and had more plans for "girls night," which usually wasn't her thing very often.
My curiosity and suspicions got the best of me, so I grabbed her cell phone while she was in the shower and noticed that the texts were with some guy she works with. I only checked the volume of texts (there were a lot) but didn't check them for content. I also logged into her Facebook account (I'm not on FB) and noticed that she had friended him as well, but no suspicious content or discussions were shared between them through FB. Finally, I logged onto her work email remotely (she has the same password for everything) and found email conversations with this same guy, who is a co-worker. Surprise, surprise! The content of the emails was nothing too intimate, but you have to remember these are work email accounts. It was DEFINITELY flirtatious and inappropriate, in my opinion.
And Boom goes the Dynamite. That sums it up.
