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***Official Friday Confessions***

BigLame said:
I confess that I am getting old. The episode (I think of this past season) of South Park where the boys are listening to Tween-wave and everything sounds like crap to Stan. Freakin' great episode. When he crashes through the window drunk with an uzi and shoots around randomly until he vomits. LOL everytime I see that.

Anyways, earlier the parents play a song by the Police and all the boys say it sounds like ****. I hear this Gotye song & to me it sounds a lot like Sting is singing the vocals. I play a song by the police for my teenage daughter, and she wrinkles her nose saying, ew, no way.

A second confession I have is I cannot stand when high schoolers & younger speak and use the word 'like' all the time. I will correct my daughter everytime she starts speaking and just one 'like' is thrown in there where it shouldn't be. Couple months ago, she had friends over and they were talking amongst each other as I was in a different room. I heard the 'like'-thing several times, so I proceeded into the room and interrupted them to instruct them not to use that word 'like' so often when they speak as it makes them appear to be unintelligent dumb-*****. Don't know if they are fans anymore, not that they were much before. Lived through the valley-girl schtick while I was a teen, maybe that is why I harbor such strong feelings on this. Who knows
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Like, oh my God. I can't believe you are like, so lame BigLame.
 
heck if i don't enjoy a catchy boy band song:

[ame=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QJO3ROT-A4E]One Direction - What Makes You Beautiful - YouTube[/ame]

also these guys thinks they are pirates:

[ame=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y5CbUF_HDWQ]Gettin' Down In A Pirate Town-Live On The Street - YouTube[/ame]

:pbiggrin:
 
For the inquiring minds that want to know:

First off, my wife and I have had our share of friction since getting married. It isn't that she doesn't get along with some of my family, but she isn't the hugest fan of them. I love her family, and they adore me, so that makes it harder for her to not get along with mine. She feels like I have two families, and she still only has one, and at times accuses her family of treating me better than her. What can I say -- people love me:wubclub:

All joking aside, the biggest issue has been infertility problems, which have been like a tornado in our marital trailer park. Neither of our faults, but still very tough...

My wife used to complain quite a bit about her job and thought about looking for another one, and then suddenly stopped, sounding more positive about going to work and her co-workers. She started texting a lot more at night while we were around the house, even when we were out to dinner sometimes, and had more plans for "girls night," which usually wasn't her thing very often.

My curiosity and suspicions got the best of me, so I grabbed her cell phone while she was in the shower and noticed that the texts were with some guy she works with. I only checked the volume of texts (there were a lot) but didn't check them for content. I also logged into her Facebook account (I'm not on FB) and noticed that she had friended him as well, but no suspicious content or discussions were shared between them through FB. Finally, I logged onto her work email remotely (she has the same password for everything) and found email conversations with this same guy, who is a co-worker. Surprise, surprise! The content of the emails was nothing too intimate, but you have to remember these are work email accounts. It was DEFINITELY flirtatious and inappropriate, in my opinion.

And Boom goes the Dynamite. That sums it up.
 
2ndCyCE said:
For the inquiring minds that want to know:

First off, my wife and I have had our share of friction since getting married. It isn't that she doesn't get along with some of my family, but she isn't the hugest fan of them. I love her family, and they adore me, so that makes it harder for her to not get along with mine. She feels like I have two families, and she still only has one, and at times accuses her family of treating me better than her. What can I say -- people love me:wubclub:

All joking aside, the biggest issue has been infertility problems, which have been like a tornado in our marital trailer park. Neither of our faults, but still very tough...

My wife used to complain quite a bit about her job and thought about looking for another one, and then suddenly stopped, sounding more positive about going to work and her co-workers. She started texting a lot more at night while we were around the house, even when we were out to dinner sometimes, and had more plans for "girls night," which usually wasn't her thing very often.

My curiosity and suspicions got the best of me, so I grabbed her cell phone while she was in the shower and noticed that the texts were with some guy she works with. I only checked the volume of texts (there were a lot) but didn't check them for content. I also logged into her Facebook account (I'm not on FB) and noticed that she had friended him as well, but no suspicious content or discussions were shared between them through FB. Finally, I logged onto her work email remotely (she has the same password for everything) and found email conversations with this same guy, who is a co-worker. Surprise, surprise! The content of the emails was nothing too intimate, but you have to remember these are work email accounts. It was DEFINITELY flirtatious and inappropriate, in my opinion.

And Boom goes the Dynamite. That sums it up.
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I know that is how you found out, but she is going to get very defensive when you tell her you looked at all her stuff. Be prepared for that. But yes, either nip it in the butt now and try to re-structure your marriage or you will be miserable thinking about it all the time.
 
bringmagicback said:
Update from last week on the new lady at work. Yesterday her friend died in a motorcycle accident (whoda guessed) and she is explaining to this other lady how he never got that drunk and rode he prob only had about 10 beers. This other lady just had a wtf look on her face. She then went on to say i just loved his ***** but didnt use that word. Later she xplained she only dates guys in there 20's. Shes 40 looks 50, were all like ok. And then she was explaining how shes going downtown this wkend to find dudes and back in the day she went down there and her husband beat the crap outta her. Last night she musta got a spray tan cause she looks like an orange. Oh and she smells like hairspray
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Good God man! It'd be like watching a car wreck!
 
Hawkeye11en1 said:
I know that is how you found out, but she is going to get very defensive when you tell her you looked at all her stuff. Be prepared for that. But yes, either nip it in the bud now and try to re-structure your marriage or you will be miserable thinking about it all the time.
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fixt5chars.
 
BigLame said:
I confess that I am getting old. The episode (I think of this past season) of South Park where the boys are listening to Tween-wave and everything sounds like crap to Stan. Freakin' great episode. When he crashes through the window drunk with an uzi and shoots around randomly until he vomits. LOL everytime I see that.

Anyways, earlier the parents play a song by the Police and all the boys say it sounds like ****. I hear this Gotye song & to me it sounds a lot like Sting is singing the vocals. I play a song by the police for my teenage daughter, and she wrinkles her nose saying, ew, no way.

A second confession I have is I cannot stand when high schoolers & younger speak and use the word 'like' all the time. I will correct my daughter everytime she starts speaking and just one 'like' is thrown in there where it shouldn't be. Couple months ago, she had friends over and they were talking amongst each other as I was in a different room. I heard the 'like'-thing several times, so I proceeded into the room and interrupted them to instruct them not to use that word 'like' so often when they speak as it makes them appear to be unintelligent dumb-*****. Don't know if they are fans anymore, not that they were much before. Lived through the valley-girl schtick while I was a teen, maybe that is why I harbor such strong feelings on this. Who knows
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I would always ask my daughters, "So you mean it's similar to...?"
 
2ndCyCE said:
For the inquiring minds that want to know:

First off, my wife and I have had our share of friction since getting married. It isn't that she doesn't get along with some of my family, but she isn't the hugest fan of them. I love her family, and they adore me, so that makes it harder for her to not get along with mine. She feels like I have two families, and she still only has one, and at times accuses her family of treating me better than her. What can I say -- people love me:wubclub:

All joking aside, the biggest issue has been infertility problems, which have been like a tornado in our marital trailer park. Neither of our faults, but still very tough...

My wife used to complain quite a bit about her job and thought about looking for another one, and then suddenly stopped, sounding more positive about going to work and her co-workers. She started texting a lot more at night while we were around the house, even when we were out to dinner sometimes, and had more plans for "girls night," which usually wasn't her thing very often.

My curiosity and suspicions got the best of me, so I grabbed her cell phone while she was in the shower and noticed that the texts were with some guy she works with. I only checked the volume of texts (there were a lot) but didn't check them for content. I also logged into her Facebook account (I'm not on FB) and noticed that she had friended him as well, but no suspicious content or discussions were shared between them through FB. Finally, I logged onto her work email remotely (she has the same password for everything) and found email conversations with this same guy, who is a co-worker. Surprise, surprise! The content of the emails was nothing too intimate, but you have to remember these are work email accounts. It was DEFINITELY flirtatious and inappropriate, in my opinion.

And Boom goes the Dynamite. That sums it up.
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Snoop a loop. I wouldnt corner her about all the texts and emails and such, I'd just ask who he is. I mean you have every right to ask. I wouldnt come off as aggressive, just curious. I most certainly wouldnt say that you went through everything because it sounds like you have lost all trust. Just my opinions.
 
Hawkeye11en1 said:
I know that is how you found out, but she is going to get very defensive when you tell her you looked at all her stuff. Be prepared for that. But yes, either nip it in the butt now and try to re-structure your marriage or you will be miserable thinking about it all the time.
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I have thought of that, which is why I haven't decided what the appropriate course of action is. I want to make sure I have my **** together when I bring it up, whichever way that may be.

I would have to say that she has a right to be upset that I was going through her stuff, but not nearly as much as I do that she is cavorting around with some DB from work.
 
I have a squirrel named after me. Pretty cute isn't it?
 
2ndCyCE said:
I have thought of that, which is why I haven't decided what the appropriate course of action is. I want to make sure I have my **** together when I bring it up, whichever way that may be.

I would have to say that she has a right to be upset that I was going through her stuff, but not nearly as much as I do that she is cavorting around with some DB from work.
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Do you trust her? If no then bring it up, if yes then let it go.

If it was me and the trust is gone but you want to still try and make it work. I'd go to the guy and tell him to knock the **** off. And you'll know if its not.

If it ends real bad send their work emails to the entire office.
 
Dude, been there. Prepare, get a lawyer on retainer, have financial records, etc. ready. Then hit her with it. If it is as it appears, you'll be ready to move forward.
 
IcSyU said:
I'm nosy. No way I could look at volume but not content.
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She was in the shower, and there were so many that I knew if I started I wouldn't be able to stop. Plus, I didn't want her to finish her shower and catch me. I want to hold all the cards in the end, if it comes to that.
 
Cy Hard said:
Dude, been there. Prepare, get a lawyer on retainer, have financial records, etc. ready. Then hit her with it. If it is as it appears, you'll be ready to move forward.
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Jesus...he isn't even sure what is going on and you think he should get a lawyer? He's going to look pretty dumb when they are just friends. Women and men can actually be friends without ******* each other.

You obviously don't trust your wife so I would bring it up and ask her. Waiting for the "right time" or until you have evidence will eat you up. Just ask her.
 
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