I think the point is that in the current landscape, athletes have significantly more power, and schools, athletic departments, and fans need to understand that. Failing to embrace the new normal comes with risk. Bill Fennelly has every right to coach the team how he wants to, but whether we like it or not, players have mobility, and there is a price for being rigid.
And for all intensive purposes it sounds like TJ is good at finding that balance of being firm with high expectations but also letting the players operate within that boundary that they know they're getting right up front.
Imo CMC overall navigated the new normal well too.