Yep, and then you can always just say that you told them it wasn't a good idea. Have both your bases covered :wink:
I know it sounds that way...but it was more of a "yes, I'll go on the roller coaster with you, but don't expect me to do it with my eyes open!" type thing. Sometimes I need to be pushed out of my comfort zone a little.
I suppose it could have ended poorly, but I agreed to it, so it's on me as much as it is on him (the TIAA-CREF is mine...).