Random Thoughts VII 'Merica (RTTVII)

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Meh, I never really liked Animaniacs that much.

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Hell, I'd never even heard of it. :shocked:
 
Need some advice/help

Long story short, my grandpa past away the summer between my Freshman and Sophomore years of college. Within a year, grandma sold everything on the farm, the farm, and found a new "boyfriend," even though she said she would wait a year to make any of those decisions. I havent talked to her since and my mom wants me to move past it before my sister graduates in May. Problem is, I still cant let it go. I dont hate her anymore, but I cant forgive her for what she did to my family. I also feel like if I move on, she wins, and gets what she wants.

Advice? Anyone ever been through a situation like this before?

She already got every thing she wanted she cashed out and is tapping the "boyfriend". I've came thru some unfavorable family experiences, always on the losing end it pretty much sucks. I would suggest being civil, in the end it's still family, and if you think past the hurt, there are probably many good memories. I try to take a more detached view of things now, but it's not easy to. Good luck in working thru this.

In a more cynical view always remember the "Golden Rule" who ever has the gold makes the rules. She had the gold (land) and she made the rules (sold it off.) Unluckily at that time you weren't in the position to influence or change things. Stuff like this always sucks.

Sorry I'm unable to give any good advice. I'm pretty sure this post sounds kind of bitter. I live with the way things turned out, and get along with the people involved, but I can't say I've ever made my peace with it, and I truly don't know if I will. Good luck resolving this CMJH.
 
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