No, that isn't it.
He's rock solid and won't change. Do any of you realize that if he wasn't solid with ISU, he wouldn't have committed as early as he did? His dad played here, his brother is on the team. He lives 35 minutes away.
Check his twitter feed out sometime. He tweets with guys on the football and basketball team. Constantly talks about ISU.
If that isn't enough to convince you, nothing will be and you should just keep it to yourself.
I've never been married, but I feel it's like if you and your spouse each have your "list". Lazard is totally committed, but he's gonna let Kate Beckingsale, Olivia Wilde, and whoever else is on his list take a run at him.
I see it as a real commitment, but these places he is going to visit are going to be very, very, enticing.