I've thought that if it comes to it, I will just tell her it is over and demand the better end of the stick without an attorney. With all of the evidence I will be able to gather on my own, I'm hoping that she will just be shamed into it. If push comes to shove, I will turn her family against her, which will definitely be the last straw for her.
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I've thought that if it comes to it, I will just tell her it is over and demand the better end of the stick without an attorney. With all of the evidence I will be able to gather on my own, I'm hoping that she will just be shamed into it. If push comes to shove, I will turn her family against her, which will definitely be the last straw for her.
Some night while she is texting, just blurt out, 'Damn, that boyfriend you have is high maintenance' and laugh like you are joking, but really focus on her reaction. It's time to start gauging things.
I feel like Married women should generally only have male friends that are mutual friends with their husbands sorta, or make some effort to not be secretive about it. The fact that she's hiding it seems kind of suspect. She'd be ****** if you went to a movie with some lady even if you weren't banging her, you can believe that.
The problem with emotional affairs is that they can be as damaging to a marriage as physical affairs. So if I confront her and ask her if she is having an affair or if there is another guy, she could say "no," and justify it to herself because she isn't ******* him, even though in her heart, she knows she is wrong. Plausible deniability.
I could ask her tonight if she is seeing someone else, and I guaran-***damn-tee you she would deny it.
You know the situation better than I do, but this is one time I would tell you having a lawyer ready in case would be smart. Never seems like it should be necessary many times, but a divorce, if it comes to that, is never a sane situation.
I went out for supper with two girls who aren't my girlfriend Monday and Tuesday this week. Girlfriend was well aware I was going out for supper both nights but I'm waiting for that to be thrown back in my face.
I have paid out the *** for lawyers before (youthful indiscretions) and would prefer not to have to do that again.
I've been texting and emailing this hot married chick at work. I'm thinking about sleeping with her, but she says her husband is sneaky and very suspicious. What do you guys think? Should I just go for it, no way he will find out.
I know where you live. The Tulsa County Assessors website is my friend. Sleep with one eye open, mother ******.
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The girl I went out for wings with Monday was a really close acquaintance at Iowa State and my girlfriend got wings out of it. Tuesday was a good friend from high school I was catching up with and my girlfriend got a piece of $18,353.28 cheesecake from Cheesecake Factory so she can't be ****** at me.
Neither is worth screwing. One might outweigh me and the other is a neighborhood tricycle...who just called off her wedding two months ago and told me Tuesday that the guy she is seeing now and her have already decided they are getting married.
The girl I went out for wings with Monday was a really close acquaintance at Iowa State and my girlfriend got wings out of it. Tuesday was a good friend from high school I was catching up with and my girlfriend got a piece of $18,353.28 cheesecake from Cheesecake Factory so she can't be ****** at me.
Neither is worth screwing. One might outweigh me and the other is a neighborhood tricycle...who just called off her wedding two months ago and told me Tuesday that the guy she is seeing now and her have already decided they are getting married.
So your situation is nothing like his haha.
****! That blows (no pun intended). CyFan has your back!
On a brighter note, I confess that after 30 years my porn name came to me in a vision...Richard Jungle.
