Sorry, but I personally do not feel obligated to curb my enthusiasm because you want to stay sitting.
Real fan support and passion can affect the game. It is VERY obvious when the fans are sitting on their hands and not supporting the team.
Both enthusiasm and apathy are contagious. Which one do you want spreading throughout the fan base?
This is also part of the problem I have with Sweet Caroline being played at the crucial point between 3rd and 4th Q. That is the point, especially in close games, that you want the most energy, not the most warm fuzzy feelings.
I know some fans love it and I like the student section involvement, but make it a tradition to play it after wins. Also, it looks completely stupid when it is played when we are losing.
The same goes for Hey Baby. I am a former band member so I have a soft spot for the song, but not the timing. Again, play it after wins.
The main point, if you want to sit, that is fine, but do not harrass other for standing. I have had friends physically manhandled for standing and cheering their hardest. Ridiculous.