You didn't think Iowa State was #1 seed material when we were 23-3, still in contention for the conference title, all metrics pointing to us having an elite overall resume, and the NCAA committee (a body that has literally never given us respect or the benefit of the doubt in any situation ever, is job it is to seed a giant tournament in the order of strength of teams) actually gave us real respect by telling the world "yeah Iowa State is a #1 seed if the tourney were today"?
I am not even sure Debbie Downer is the right term. You were hedging with your Cyclone nut cup on. Which I can respect to some degree, but like it or not - we very much were on a very real path for a #1 seed in the tournament. That's not debatable; the path was factually there. The idea that we can retroactively tweak expectations so we don't get disappointed is a weird Cyclone coping mechanism.
I don't see what's so wrong about calling these last 8 days what it is - a very disappointing missed opportunity. Hell, had we beaten BYU and Tech (which we were favored to do), and lost at Arizona, we're still in the conversation for a #1 seed. Losing 2 of the last 3 was the worst possible scenario.