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It has great reviews for the most part. I haven't used it.
The gel stuff made me nervous. Google showed some guy cutting a 3" hole in the base, using a 4 to 3 PVC reducer and something called a grip cap that has a seal that expands to fill the hole. I spent about $7 and it saved about 2 hours of annoying work.

JC-Protip...just use sand tubes. Think how you will handle moving it (you will at some point) with 300lbs of sand in it.
I didn't fill it all the way for this reason. I have two 40 lb sand bags that I place on top and can remove so that I can move the hoop.
 
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This sounds like a recurring argument the gf and I have had. Some guys arent great gift givers even with you make it super obvious.

I know part of my problem is whatever I come up with is never good enough IMO so I try to think of better things. Might be the case? Either way, probably not the right move on his part with your hormonal state. I will wait for the Dateline episode to come out.


I'm pretty easy to please..........I think. I generally don't try to make him guess what I'd like or play games about it. He just procrastinates.

I think he felt bad because he came and helped me do the dresser (after I assume he ordered a couple things) and was being very much his conciliatory mood. Which is what he'll normally do. I'd just like him to be a little more proactive about it. Nagging someone to buy you a birthday gift is all backwards! I'm less fish knifey now.
 
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Sent DH an email with gift ideas for me almost two weeks ago. Last week I texted him reminding him that if he were to order anything/make dinner reservations, he should do so. Note, my Xmas present was tickets to a musical and supposed to include dinner at my fave restaurant. So I had said prior to musical that he should make that reservation. He didn't check til the week before and of course it was booked solid. This happened with both musicals we went to. Yes, I should probably just make my own reservation but dammit, I want him to actually do it if it's supposed to be his gift to me.

So an email + reminder. Tonight I made a comment about packages arriving tomorrow that I didn't know where they were from, thinking it might be a gift for me. He's like oh yeah, speaking of that........then starts asking about what I sent him. I'm like you haven't ordered yet? Well no. My birthday is in three days, that's not going to be here by then. "Well you didn't get me anything until after my birthday either."

RAGE. WRONG ANSWER, BOY. You refused to give me any ideas! It wasn't until after his birthday that he mentioned the comics and I ordered them the next morning. Not two weeks later! I asked multiple times before his birthday if he wanted to do anything or wanted something specific.

It's not like it's the end of the world if it's not here by Friday; I'm just really annoyed. He's like "I've been busy" yeah cause I haven't been?! It's not like it takes a long time to order a specific makeup product or yoga ball I listed. Plus I've said for years that I'd love a surprise party for my 30th, which I knew he would never want to plan. Course I'd planned on being able to drink for it/not be uncomfortably pregnant so that idea got sort of sidelined and he lucked out. So maybe put in the bare minimum effort to spend 5 minutes ordering something your wife sent to you weeks ago?


/rant over
When my wife turned 30 she said, "I'm 30 and pregnant, don't you dare throw me a party." She did get pretty good blowouts for her 40th and 45th, however.

With the restaurant talk, I'm just curious if your palate has changed. During various pregnancies, my wife craved BK Whoppers (She'd allow herself one Whopper Jr., maybe two a week - she didn't think she'd ever had a Whopper prior to that.), butterscotch pudding, olives, and Honey Weiss beer (she'd allow herself half a beer when the craving became too strong).
 
When my wife turned 30 she said, "I'm 30 and pregnant, don't you dare throw me a party." She did get pretty good blowouts for her 40th and 45th, however.

With the restaurant talk, I'm just curious if your palate has changed. During various pregnancies, my wife craved BK Whoppers (She'd allow herself one Whopper Jr., maybe two a week - she didn't think she'd ever had a Whopper prior to that.), butterscotch pudding, olives, and Honey Weiss beer (she'd allow herself half a beer when the craving became too strong).


I don't think it has, though chip and mint ice cream has become a favorite. This baby is going to be a third pizza, third ice cream. And third fruits and veggies. Good solid mix.
 
I think I had a run of 5-6 years where everything I bought was returned or never used. What do you get a woman who buys whatever she generally wants? I pretty much gave up and would get her routine stuff. She doesn’t buy for mine. My family doesn’t do gifts. Her family buys a gift if someone mows a lawn.
 
The gel stuff made me nervous. Google showed some guy cutting a 3" hole in the base, using a 4 to 3 PVC reducer and something called a grip cap that has a seal that expands to fill the hole. I spent about $7 and it saved about 2 hours of annoying work.

I didn't fill it all the way for this reason. I have two 40 lb sand bags that I place on top and can remove so that I can move the hoop.
A government employee fearful of new ways. Check!
 
I think I had a run of 5-6 years where everything I bought was returned or never used. What do you get a woman who buys whatever she generally wants? I pretty much gave up and would get her routine stuff. She doesn’t buy for mine. My family doesn’t do gifts. Her family buys a gift if someone mows a lawn.

Jewelry almost always works for me. ;)
 
Had a busy (but not overly busy) and fun weekend with the family. Got a lot done and created memories. I will consider that a success.

In other news being at a different life stage (married, kids) then 98% of your friends is hard.
 
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Just got the updated commodity report, and lumber and plywood are up again - they were already at historically high levels. Owing to the wildfires last year, and tariff arguments with Canada, costs have been rising steadily since last fall. The overall lumber prices are more than twice what they were a year ago.

Until lately, the problem has been supply (no logs because of the fires) - but now the mills are in full production, and we have transportation issues. Trains are scarce, trucks are scrambling to keep up because there simply aren't enough drivers, and the DOT has tightened logging regulations, so drivers can't "cheat" and drive extra hours.

Meanwhile, we here at the retail level are stuck trying to explain this to pissed off builders and contractors, who mostly don't accept our explanations as truth. Not fun at the lumber yard these days.......:(

At some point we need to start salvaging the old wood from houses and not just bulldoze them down and throw it into a dumpster. I would make an exception for the older part of my house (1959) that I hand demo'd because the 2x4 are freaking real doug fir...strong stuff but hard as hell and a total ***** to work with. Ended up cutting most of it into split firewood.
 
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At some point we need to start salvaging the old wood from houses and not just bulldoze them down and throw it into a dumpster. I would make an exception for the older part of my house (1959) that I hand demo'd because the 2x4 are freaking real doug fir...strong stuff but hard as hell and a total ***** to work with. Ended up cutting most of it into split firewood.


Had a barn drop 15 years ago. An old HS friend asked if he could salvage before we dozed it under. End of story, there are a lot of country clubs in North Carolina with Iowan barn wood in their tennis courts.
 
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Reclaimed barn wood is big business. I had a buddy who used to salvage tons of it, and would sell it to Applebees, Diamond Dave's, etc who used it as interior decor. He made a pretty tidy sum doing this, as most farmers didn't care as long as they didn't have to tear it off themselves.
 
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Had a barn drop 15 years ago. An old HS friend asked if he could salvage before we dozed it under. End of story, there are a lot of country clubs in North Carolina with Iowan barn wood in their tennis courts.

Some nice old growth beams and posts in old barns and warehouses. Have companies that specialize in the salvaging the big warehouse post/beam/flooring stuff. Related, I find the underwater salvage of old lost logs to be fascinating.
 
Some nice old growth beams and posts in old barns and warehouses. Have companies that specialize in the salvaging the big warehouse post/beam/flooring stuff. Related, I find the underwater salvage of old lost logs to be fascinating.
I know of a small lake in New Hampshire that the trees had been logged many many years earlier. If you took a boat out in it you could find logs floating vertically just beneath the surface. Even if it was big enough for a speed boat it would have been far too dangerous.
 
Jewelry almost always works for me. ;)
That wouldn't work for me. I don't wear necklaces, watches, or bracelets. I used to wear earrings but got out of the habit and now one of the holes has closed over; I've been thinking about going down to the Heroic Ink and getting them re-pierced, but just haven't gotten around to it yet.
As for rings - I wear the same five, all the time. They rarely come off. They're generational - right hand, pinkie is a garnet (my birthstone), ring finger is a blue topaz (my grandmother's birthstone ring passed down to me). Left hand, pinkie is an amethyst (my mother's birthstone ring also passed down to me), ring finger is wedding ring (natch!), and middle finger is my mother's ring, given to me by our kids about 15 years ago. It has each of their birthstones in the shape of a heart. I chose the middle finger deliberately - that way when they annoy me I can ask them if they want to see my mother's ring. :D

The point of that explanation is that all of them are precious to me, and represent my family and my life, so I don't switch them out with others.

So you can see why buying jewelry is a bust for PapaLew! :D
 
That wouldn't work for me. I don't wear necklaces, watches, or bracelets. I used to wear earrings but got out of the habit and now one of the holes has closed over; I've been thinking about going down to the Heroic Ink and getting them re-pierced, but just haven't gotten around to it yet.
As for rings - I wear the same five, all the time. They rarely come off. They're generational - right hand, pinkie is a garnet (my birthstone), ring finger is a blue topaz (my grandmother's birthstone ring passed down to me). Left hand, pinkie is an amethyst (my mother's birthstone ring also passed down to me), ring finger is wedding ring (natch!), and middle finger is my mother's ring, given to me by our kids about 15 years ago. It has each of their birthstones in the shape of a heart. I chose the middle finger deliberately - that way when they annoy me I can ask them if they want to see my mother's ring. :D

The point of that explanation is that all of them are precious to me, and represent my family and my life, so I don't switch them out with others.

So you can see why buying jewelry is a bust for PapaLew! :D

I am you, but on an even stricter scale. I have never liked wearing jewelry - ever. (Something personal, that's all. Just don't like the feel of it, especially a wristwatch.) So I wear my wedding ring (of course!) and a beautiful wrist watch the vixen gave me several years ago. I'm sure she would be crestfallen if I didn't.

Now she, on the other hand........let's just say I can never go wrong buying jewelry for her. And I'm pretty careful and selective with what I get her, but she is always happy. The diamond earrings I got her for her birthday last year made her cry.
 
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