I mean, you realize I'm the same graduating year as you, right? So yeah, I understand the disappointment, but it just means I'll find someone better. Like right now, Ikea girl's amazing, and I'm thankful it didn't work out with any of the other girls I've dated. And if it doesn't work out with Ikea girl, then it wasn't meant to be, and I'll find someone who will make me thankful that it didn't work out with Ikea girl.I used to be like you two dudes. Then I've learned to stop caring about "getting to marriage" because that was the next step and just living life. It also doesn't help any time I attempt to get serious with a girl it goes horribly wrong but that's just semantics. Just go with the flow, I was pissed I didn't find my fiance at college like I had dreamed of. It didn't help at all when I graduated and didnt have anything on the horizon. Don't do that