So you'd be giving someone the (Cy)Birdy?
KC...so glad your stepbrother & co. are able to take care of things. Is there something they can do where your dad doesn't have firing power of the caregivers?
And right now, I'm craving eggs/egg salad. Yet I'm at work for another...2ish hours probably? Drat.
That's what they will be working on. Right now, he still has access to the joint account. They have his, hers & theirs...they each transfer money into the joint account to cover joint bills (house, electric, water, etc). That's where a large part of the prob is...he was in charge of paying the bills, he wrote checks but didn't transfer money to cover them...then blamed her. He can't focus on paperwork long enough to figure out how much to pay, and to whom. His wife has to be the one to remove his access, which is what my stepbrother will be trying to accomplish.
As for the "firing", early on when both were having health issues but not mental issues, they fired a number of home health care workers, insisting that they could do everything for themselves (when it was apparent to the rest of us that they really couldn't).
Recently, Daddy has "fired" several, but firing wasn't as much of a problem as failing to pay them...or paying them with rubber checks...