So, my 4 year old is very soft hearted...today he had the Ipod while I made lunch and Mrs was running errands. He then put it down and was playing with something else and 2 YO picks it up (he really doesn't do anything with it, it's just a thing to play with). 4 YO says that he was playing with it, and 2 YO took it. I had seen that he wasn't actively playing with it, and that's a thing we've been working on with him...if he played with something anytime in the last 2 hours, that means he's 'playing with it'...so I told him that 2 YO didn't 'take it', and he wasn't actively playing with it, so 2 YO could have it for a little bit, he plays with something for like 30 seconds anyway and then he's done.
No good, 4 YO starts bawling, 2 YO walks into the kitchen with his new prize, then stops, and says "He can have it", and takes it back over to him.
Bad dad inside my head wanted to say "4 YO...you're lucky your younger brother is more mature than you and decided to be the bigger man about it"...but I didn't, I just made him give a very boisterous "thank you"....but it's amazing how the two of them are different.
I also think mom plays in somehow...we had to go to the dentist while Mrs. ran other errands...he was fine the whole time, we had a good time (at the dentist, no less!)...Mrs. walks in for 15 seconds and asks if he wants to go to the library for story time, he says no. She says "OK, see you later"...he starts bawling...then bawling over going AND not going in quick succession...WTF...
No good, 4 YO starts bawling, 2 YO walks into the kitchen with his new prize, then stops, and says "He can have it", and takes it back over to him.
Bad dad inside my head wanted to say "4 YO...you're lucky your younger brother is more mature than you and decided to be the bigger man about it"...but I didn't, I just made him give a very boisterous "thank you"....but it's amazing how the two of them are different.
I also think mom plays in somehow...we had to go to the dentist while Mrs. ran other errands...he was fine the whole time, we had a good time (at the dentist, no less!)...Mrs. walks in for 15 seconds and asks if he wants to go to the library for story time, he says no. She says "OK, see you later"...he starts bawling...then bawling over going AND not going in quick succession...WTF...