Random Thoughts 17: Here we go again.

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My Dad and his siblings have decided to sell off my family's farm land that's been in our family for over 100 years. My Sister is upset about it but doesn't realize the amount of coin its going to take for one of them to buy the other 2 out. So it's fun trying to explain to her exactly how much per acre farm land in Iowa is as she lives in the KC Metro.
 
If you're wanting to buy any cast iron, KC, the shipping is going to be brutal. :cool:
I was actually looking for the waffle irons. I'm on page 22 and had to quit for a while. Shipping isn't an issue. We would drive up there & pick the item(s) up, and do some geocaching on the way home. Gets us out of the house for something other than doc appts. I have PT, xrays, and a visit to ortho today alone!
 
@cmjh10 or I can bring it down. I gotta move the daughter to her new apartment by the end of July and then you always have FB games. I have bids in some stuff also. Always fun to buy stuff you haven’t looked at. I have the winning bid on 3 things so far. One involved calling a mechanic I know and asking what he thinks the issue is and banking on that.
We've done a few auctions a little more local to us. Every now and again, one catches our eye.
 
Tomorrow I get to go from clear lake to cedar rapids for a 2 hour meeting. Then to Omaha for a 2 hour meeting. Then back to the clear lake area. It’s going to be a long day. Think I’m actually packing a cooler to have some drinks and other stuff with. Otherwise it’s Taco Bell or gas station food/drinks. Maybe the meetings will be shorter and I can take breaks between.

EDIT: add in that it will be half an hour before and after clear lake also. Then I get to leave early in the morning for state track. Maybe I can pull the auto steer out of a tractor and have it drive me part of the way.
There are definitely times when the theory behind "Multiplicity" seems like a good idea...especially when there are multiple teenagers in the house.
 
Random thought.

Eventually everything I own will be in a dumpster.

Aunt is not doing well. There's an online auction of her stuff. Things she always thought had value are going for a buck or aren't being bid on.

It had value to the owner but that value leaves with them.
I've told my kids they might want to put my Oneida cutlery on ebay and split the profits. It's out of production. Forks are going for $35 EACH (I had to replace a couple of forks and several spoons to bring my set back to 12 settings). Yowch!
 
Random thought.

Eventually everything I own will be in a dumpster.

Aunt is not doing well. There's an online auction of her stuff. Things she always thought had value are going for a buck or aren't being bid on.

It had value to the owner but that value leaves with them.
It is hard but yeah it is fairly standard that the seller values everything more than the buyer. We went through at least two large dumpsters clearing stuff out of my grandparent's house. Then we had a small UHaul full of stuff with actual value we took to an auction house.
My Dad and his siblings have decided to sell off my family's farm land that's been in our family for over 100 years. My Sister is upset about it but doesn't realize the amount of coin its going to take for one of them to buy the other 2 out. So it's fun trying to explain to her exactly how much per acre farm land in Iowa is as she lives in the KC Metro.
This is going to be an issue in my mom's family. She values the tie to that land more than least one of her three siblings and has no desire to sell, ever. I would be proud to own it but not split 10 ways with my cousins. Then what we pass it on and it gets split 25 ways to the next generation? Clearly is not sustainable. Sell it to my cousin who is actually farming the land and it still stays in the family. Not to mention this is Tama county and not NW Iowa.
 
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I've told my kids they might want to put my Oneida cutlery on ebay and split the profits. It's out of production. Forks are going for $35 EACH (I had to replace a couple of forks and several spoons to bring my set back to 12 settings). Yowch!

I told moms that she needs to find someone to find value in her things. There is no value to me. It will be a burden going through her stuff.

It's either find someone to give her stuff to or I'm getting a 30 yard dumpster and tossing everything.

It's stuff. The value is gone when she leaves. My stuff will have no value when I'm gone. Only if someone else finds a value.
 
My Dad and his siblings have decided to sell off my family's farm land that's been in our family for over 100 years. My Sister is upset about it but doesn't realize the amount of coin its going to take for one of them to buy the other 2 out. So it's fun trying to explain to her exactly how much per acre farm land in Iowa is as she lives in the KC Metro.
It's why my father and his brothers left their ranch for new lives back in the forties. Two of them would have stayed but it was 3000 acres. Too small to split and have 3 productive operations. and none of them could buy the others out. And larger ranches were edging out the little guys.

Believe it or not, when it was sold it stopped being a working ranch and became a "weekend getaway" for a Houston oil family. Sigh. They paved the 3 mile dirt/shale "driveway/road" from the FTM road to the house, put in an airstrip, a swimming pool and a tennis court, and planted an acre of grass around the house. GRASS. In an area where it's shallow to limestone/shale bedrock, and nothing grows easily but prickly pears & cheet grass...along with the ever hardy live oak, black walnut & scrub cedar. The cost of maintaining a lush acre of grass had to be astronomical.
 
I told moms that she needs to find someone to find value in her things. There is no value to me. It will be a burden going through her stuff.

It's either find someone to give her stuff to or I'm getting a 30 yard dumpster and tossing everything.

It's stuff. The value is gone when she leaves. My stuff will have no value when I'm gone. Only if someone else finds a value.
You might try ebay or facebook marketplace...
I'm amazed at the prices some things command...things I wouldn't pay 2 cents for. There's no cost involved to you in posting them (other than time spent responding to inquiries).
 
You might try ebay or facebook marketplace...
I'm amazed at the prices some things command...things I wouldn't pay 2 cents for. There's no cost involved to you in posting them (other than time spent responding to inquiries).

That's probably a problem with my Aunt's auction
There's a 57 Chevy. In rough shape, but it's only going for $550 right now.
 
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It's why my father and his brothers left their ranch for new lives back in the forties. Two of them would have stayed but it was 3000 acres. Too small to split and have 3 productive operations. and none of them could buy the others out. And larger ranches were edging out the little guys.

Believe it or not, when it was sold it stopped being a working ranch and became a "weekend getaway" for a Houston oil family. Sigh. They paved the 3 mile dirt/shale "driveway/road" from the FTM road to the house, put in an airstrip, a swimming pool and a tennis court, and planted an acre of grass around the house. GRASS. In an area where it's shallow to limestone/shale bedrock, and nothing grows easily but prickly pears & cheet grass...along with the ever hardy live oak, black walnut & scrub cedar. The cost of maintaining a lush acre of grass had to be astronomical.
When my grandfather passed, the farmland went to my Dad and his siblings. The way the contract is written, if one of them passes, all of the farmland is then split between the next generation which is 8 of us. My Dad is the youngest of the 3 by over a decade and he's 63. It's a no brainer to sell and get out of this mess before things get incredibly too complicated.
 
Random thought.

Eventually everything I own will be in a dumpster.

Aunt is not doing well. There's an online auction of her stuff. Things she always thought had value are going for a buck or aren't being bid on.

It had value to the owner but that value leaves with them.
My inlaws might be having second thoughts about making Mrs. Velo's brother executor of their estate. He has already said that when they die he is parking a dumpster on the driveway and everything is going in it. Both Mrs. Velo and her other brother have said there might be a few things that they want. His response is, "Nope, it is all going in the dumpster." Mrs. Velo is pretty upset about this already and neither of them are in the grave.

It may be him just being him and he will let people pick through stuff before it gets trashed but I don't think he realizes the angst he is causing with his flippant comment and the follow up refusal. Unlike me, Mrs. Velo is no pack rat, but there are a few things she might want to keep of her parents' but she is afraid that it is ALL going to the landfill.
 
When my grandfather passed, the farmland went to my Dad and his siblings. The way the contract is written, if one of them passes, all of the farmland is then split between the next generation which is 8 of us. My Dad is the youngest of the 3 by over a decade and he's 63. It's a no brainer to sell and get out of this mess before things get incredibly too complicated.
There were 1000 acres of unused land in a separate parcel from the ranch grandpa sold that passed to the three sons. All they did was pay property taxes for years. They had the same stipulation that your grandfather did. My sister and our oldest cousin on that side teamed up and talked the three sons into selling it off while they were all still alive. What the hell were the 10 cousins going to do with 100 acres of land each, all miles from the nearest town?
 
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My inlaws might be having second thoughts about making Mrs. Velo's brother executor of their estate. He has already said that when they die he is parking a dumpster on the driveway and everything is going in it. Both Mrs. Velo and her other brother have said there might be a few things that they want. His response is, "Nope, it is all going in the dumpster." Mrs. Velo is pretty upset about this already and neither of them are in the grave.

It may be him just being him and he will let people pick through stuff before it gets trashed but I don't think he realizes the angst he is causing with his flippant comment and the follow up refusal. Unlike me, Mrs. Velo is no pack rat, but there are a few things she might want to keep of her parents' but she is afraid that it is ALL going to the landfill.
We insisted that our kids tell us now if they have any particular attachments to things in our home. Some are expected, some are entirely random. Lew's youngest (the marine) will get his rifle, shotgun & pistol. My younger son wants the posable California Raisins that were moved all over our house when they were teens and older (if you saw them, you moved them to a new spot). He also wants the ridiculous piece of decorated driftwood that we call "Woody", that has hung from our rearview mirror in each of our successive main vehicles for over 20 years. Both of those would have likely ended up in the dumpster. :D
Those items are listed on a page in our wills so that the trustee (executor) knows where to distribute them. Mrs Velo might suggest that route to her folks. Then her brother would be obligated to distribute them.
 
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