Holy EF. Bank tells me I can't dispute the Hobby Lobby bill due to it being pending still and not charged. Okay, I will go in tomorrow. Mention it to the wife tonight that I can't dispute it while it's pending and then she gets out a debit card and says that yes she did charge that amount to a card. Said she told me yes when I asked. I reread the texts and asked what part of asking if our suburban could pull a hayrack means the phrase yes. Then get told it was too long of a story so she couldn't text it. I reread that I texted it was fine if she did, I was just wanting to know since it was an out of the ordinary situation, not my best decision.
In the end, it appears it is apparently my fault she found a debit card somewhere and randomly used it and I need to know that a question about a hayrack means yes from now on. Now go into the bank and tell them to forget it tomorrow.