Small schools are awesome though if you really want to be involved. I doubt many people in 4A schools are out for four sports, pretty much every music thing, and student government. I just think there are so many more opportunities with smaller schools.
Small schools CAN be awesome, but many of them don't have the resources to offer even half of what you listed above. Lots of them can only keep the doors open by cutting back on programming - like sports, art programs, music programs, etc.