Nephews wife dyed her hair white I just saw. THis after spending since 8-9 this morning at the hospital because she had bad back pain. Went to the local one, didn't like their advice so they went to another and got MRIs and everything. Apparently had back surgery a few weeks ago. BIL has been too busy with his "my wife is self absorbed" situation that they haven't even stopped over. This cluster**** of a mess is becoming interesting and I'm getting great opportunities to not have to really interact with them. Life is good.