Random Thoughts VII 'Merica (RTTVII)

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Apps are great - as far as they go. However, when you're coordinating between four teenage boys (and two girls that don't live with you), it helps to have one big place where everyone can write their stuff down where everyone else can see it.

We tried to have a presence at all their events, but if it wasn't on the calendar, they might not see us there. :)
We do use an old school monthly flip calendar that we look at every Sunday to plan the week.
 
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little bro got himself locked in the car before church one day when he was about 2. I still remember that. Trying to get him to push the right button.
 
and while I'm busy patting myself on the back pants-style for my future mom skillz, I'd like to point out all of the great parents we have in this thread. Most of you don't appear to have sociopathic kids so that seems like a real success. I enjoy reading your parenting stories and I definitely store tidbits from them.
 
and while I'm busy patting myself on the back pants-style for my future mom skillz, I'd like to point out all of the great parents we have in this thread. Most of you don't appear to have sociopathic kids so that seems like a real success. I enjoy reading your parenting stories and I definitely store tidbits from them.
In a spreadsheet?
 
so I'm responding to a bawbie post from the Cave. Don't worry, nothing cave-y just him saying something I said made him think I'd be an awesome mom (hey thanks!) and I wanted to respond here instead of caveland


So yesterday there was some family dramz - long story short my youngest bro (22) left the farm, got a job and moved in (please God temporarily) with his much younger GF and her mom until he can get an apt. Other than the current living situation, I think this is great for him. Because my family is being dicks about this and also never gave any of us "the talk". I'm like, someone has to adult here. So since he and I have always been better buds with each other than our other siblings, I start texting. Just asking about the job and you know, acting like a normal person would when someone moves out and starts their own life. He eventually asked how mad family seemed when mom told me and we had a good chat about that. He actually said he wanted to be like me and not the two sibs who have more or less had things spoon fed to them and still depend heavily on my parents. I feel so proud that even though we don't see each other much, he still sees me as the example of where he wants to get too. Might get a lil tear here.

But of course I am supremely concerned about the living situation so I finally text that hey you need to be smart about things right now cause diapers are expensive and was like you can buy things at places if you need them. My text was a bit more direct, obviously. His response lowered my concerns a bit but I'm like you know you can always talk to me.

So last night I was telling this to DH and I'm like DH, I had a conversation with my baby brother about safe sex. Holy crap, I think I'm ready to be a parent!


Haha, so before certain people assume, no I am not pregnant but that's just one of those conversations I imagined having to do in the future and didn't expect to come up now. I really did feel like the only mature, rational person in the situation yesterday. I was very proud of myself. Told DH I wanted two gold stars and all I got was a thumbs up from him.

I think that's cool that he looks up to you and all that but kinda feel it's odd that you felt the need to have a safe sex talk with your 22 year old brother. My sister was your age when I was 22 and would have just walked away if she ever started bringing up sex with me.
 
and while I'm busy patting myself on the back pants-style for my future mom skillz, I'd like to point out all of the great parents we have in this thread. Most of you don't appear to have sociopathic kids so that seems like a real success. I enjoy reading your parenting stories and I definitely store tidbits from them.

I'll pimp one of my old threads, but there's a lot of great advice of what not to do here. Bos and Snowcraig had me cracking up.

http://cyclonefanatic.com/forum/showthread.php?t=180453
 
and while I'm busy patting myself on the back pants-style for my future mom skillz, I'd like to point out all of the great parents we have in this thread. Most of you don't appear to have sociopathic kids so that seems like a real success. I enjoy reading your parenting stories and I definitely store tidbits from them.


WDSM would also like to pat you on the back pants.
 
and while I'm busy patting myself on the back pants-style for my future mom skillz, I'd like to point out all of the great parents we have in this thread. Most of you don't appear to have sociopathic kids so that seems like a real success. I enjoy reading your parenting stories and I definitely store tidbits from them.

I just want to clarify I have never patted myself on the back for my future mom skillz.
 
My sister locked her daughter in the car when she was 2. To this day, she does not find a shred of humor in that anecdote.
My parents used an old car seat my aunts had used when my cousins were young. It didn't hold together exactly right, so my dad used safety pins to hold it together. My parents are both attorneys so they really should have known better (not that attorneys make better parents, but a lot of our classes revolve around "what did those idiots do next"). Nothing ever happened, but he's still mortified about that.
 
I think that's cool that he looks up to you and all that but kinda feel it's odd that you felt the need to have a safe sex talk with your 22 year old brother. My sister was your age when I was 22 and would have just walked away if she ever started bringing up sex with me.


homeschooled, remember? To my knowledge, none of us ever got any real discussion on the topic. I'm sure he's picked up on a few things at this point but I did feel he needed to hear it. I get your point though- the other brother? Never would have this discussion even if we were closer. In fact, when he was about this age, he and I had a convo about how we though our sister would end up getting pregnant because of the guy she was dating. That brother has always been fairly responsible, mature, and aware of that kind of stuff.

This brother has always been way immature for his age. He just turned 22 but I would say he's very much like a 17-19 year old. His friends have always been several years younger and same with the couple girlfriends he's had. The other three siblings were all held back a year in school (parent's choice, all early summer birthdays) and this brother was actually held back two. So if he were in school right now, he'd be like college soph level. But that would put him at what, Bu's level? And I don't see that at all.
 
and while I'm busy patting myself on the back pants-style for my future mom skillz, I'd like to point out all of the great parents we have in this thread. Most of you don't appear to have sociopathic kids so that seems like a real success. I enjoy reading your parenting stories and I definitely store tidbits from them.

Thanks
 
omg, that bos post. Good thread revival, this is hilarious.

And baby Z was only three months old!
 
Hey, Pants, Macallan 12 year for sale for $42 at Liquor Boy a couple miles from my place. Same place with the $1/bottle for Kona beers. It's like a conspiracy to get to drink more.

They are even doing a Kona tasting May 13.
 
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