the whole thing seems squicky to me. Are they being proud of their dad-bodness/is it being considered a good thing to have? Not that it's a problem, but "mom-bod" would not be considered in the same manner, I believe. I don't think guys need to all look like Hugh Jackmansad
but then it'd be nice that all women (especially after having children) are not expected to look like Heidi Klum. And I wouldn't want Heidi Klum (and those like her) to feel bad for looking the way she does! I just wish that womens' bodies weren't scrutinized the way they are. I mean, I joke about Hugh and other fine specimens but Selena Gomez just got ripped apart for being fat when.......she is not. I feel like that same level of criticism just isn't there for guys like, oh Josh Radnor or some other completely normal, healthy guy.
IDK, I want people to want to take care of themselves and I don't want to get into the realm of doing mental gymnastics to say that being seriously obese is still healthy somehow, but I also don't want people being torn apart because of their weight. If that makes any sense.
If I'm correct in my perception, the whole thing was started by a woman saying she was all about that dad bod, not guys saying 'yeah, we ain't working out, love us as we are'.
Hey, ask Mrs. 00clone, I'm fine with mom bod. Actually, just last week, one of our actions in our devotional was to write the other a love letter in the form of song of songs (that's the 'naughty' books of the bible) and I did it (although in normal guy language, not poetry stuff). Gave it to her on mother's day (only because I wasn't home on our anniversary on Friday).
I think we're on the same page.