I should probably elaborate on this, because he's had a few chances, most of which have been understandable.
Week that I moved here, we were supposed to go out on the Thursday night, he had also just moved downtown and the condo he moved into hadn't finished installing shower fixtures that day so he didn't have a shower to use before meeting me (and after being at the gym) so that got postponed. Totally acceptable, wasn't mad at all. Saw him the next night at a housewarming party anyway.
That meet up was rescheduled for the following Friday because we were both busy during the week. I saw him the night before (when I got trapped in the parking garage downtown). I ended up getting invited to go boating, tried to get him to go boating, didn't want to leave boating so he gave me an out saying that it was a long weekend and we could go out the next night (he had also scheduled to meet up with his friends directly after said dinner date..wtf).
Saturday comes around, he reschedules on me because he's hanging out with his family. I find out that he went out downtown with his roommates friends. Am seriously annoyed. He says he'll be free Monday night, I already had plans for someone's birthday so it ends up with Wednesday.
I text him yesterday to see if he wants to meet at the restaurant or downtown at his apt and walk over together (they are two blocks from each other) and he tells me that he won't be able to make it because he has a project due and has to work late. Mutual friend confirms so I'm nice about it. Says he'll be free this weekend, I say that that isn't far away, he says he's not sure how to take that...I say that I'm disappointed that I won't be seeing him but I understand that he has to work. Then nothing. Zero response despite me being flirty right after that.
Most tinder dudes are total douches just wanting hookups, but there is an occasional nice guy as well. Kind of like the bar scene. I can't exactly meet anyone from work since I work alone in my living room.