Online dating experience/advice

I can tell you I've seen many (a shocking amount) of requests for "no dikpiks" which tells me there are a lot circulating which futher tells me...they also work?

Asking for a friend.
Define “work”
 
One off shoot of being divorced is you inherently end up with a group of divorced friends. Based on the stories of some of the women that I hang out with frequently it's very common and some dudes lead with it!! I've also figured out that I'm starting to think that single men are the ones that are truly crazy, some of the stories I've heard are INSANE!!

On a sidenote I can speak from experience there are a number of women that expect and demand a dikpik. It's a good way start the vetting process!!
I honestly would not want to date a woman who sent me a bunch of nudes. Would make me think she’s kind of a ho. My wife would chew me out if I sent her a dikpik
 
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I honestly would not want to date a woman who sent me a bunch of nudes. Would make me think she’s kind of a ho. My wife would chew me out if I sent her a dikpik
Flaccid or not flaccid?
 
I honestly would not want to date a woman who sent me a bunch of nudes. Would make me think she’s kind of a ho. My wife would chew me out if I sent her a dikpik

This is exactly the way I viewed it.

A woman I've become friends with keeps complaining she can't meet a good man. Meanwhile she sneaks off into the bathroom to swap nudes with some guy she's chatting with through a dating app. I've tried to tell her if she's looking to meet someone long term she needs to change tactics, if she's looking to just get taken out on dates and get laid then continue on her course!!!
 
One off shoot of being divorced is you inherently end up with a group of divorced friends. Based on the stories of some of the women that I hang out with frequently it's very common and some dudes lead with it!! I've also figured out that I'm starting to think that single men are the ones that are truly crazy, some of the stories I've heard are INSANE!!

On a sidenote I can speak from experience there are a number of women that expect and demand a dikpik. It's a good way start the vetting process!!
I have read that 80 percent of divorce filees are women. When its a college educated woman, it bumps up to 90 percent. Just a public service announcement for pre nups there.
 
I was put back into the dating scene roughly 21 months ago when I uncovered a few things that made my wifes sudden infatuation with Ankeny Centennial football that fall make a hell of a lot more sense!!!

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I met my wife through online dating 9 years ago. I tried match a lot and had a few short term relationships (1 month or so) from it. Many times I reached out to people and didn't get a response. Some of them may have been not interested, but I also think that some of those were due to someone creating a free profile and not being "all in on it". You could create a profile for free and browse, but to read/send emails you had to subscribe. There seemed to be a lot of fake or foreign profiles on there. Seemed to be a lot from Eastern Europe/Russia. I got tired of spending $30+ a month for no results. I tried Plenty of Fish which was free. There may have been some questionable people on there, but I did feel people on there were more serious about dating.
 
I have a coworker who went through a divorce after 10 years of marriage, she joined plenty of fish and her inbox looked like a meat locker. Basically all of them that sent pics were people she had very little contact with. It was exchanging a few messages and them BAM!. The frequency of them makes me think that there are women out there that are looking for or are impressed with that straight forward mentality. She was only on there for a week or so before it was too much. She gave up, then found a nice guy who works in the building next to us, super random and theyve been together for 3 years now.