Net Worth private poll

What is your houshold net worth? Private Poll

  • Negative (you owe more than what you're worth)

    Votes: 73 14.1%
  • 0-$50,000

    Votes: 62 11.9%
  • $50,000-$100,000

    Votes: 49 9.4%
  • $100,000-$250,000

    Votes: 49 9.4%
  • $250,000-$500,000

    Votes: 73 14.1%
  • $500,000-$750,000

    Votes: 55 10.6%
  • $750,000-$1,000,000

    Votes: 29 5.6%
  • $1,000,000+

    Votes: 129 24.9%

  • Total voters
    519
Paying off your mortgage early is probably one of the worst things you can do if you are trying to build wealth assuming you're earning a greater percent of return on investments that you're paying on interest with your mortgage.

We were fortunate enough (like many) to refinance at a sub-3% interest rate back during COVID. We could start to pay our mortgage off much more aggressively, but it makes zero sense to do so when average rate on return in the market over time has been much greater than 3%. Add in the tax deductions for mortgage interest and you're even further ahead.

I've worked in mortgage for most of my career and you would not believe the number of peope taking out large mortgages who could write a check for the house they're buying 5-10x over. It's exactly for this reason.
Yeah I get that. Ours is at 2.125% which is why its been a slower payoff since 2022/23 where we refi'd. This is a personal goal now of just being debt free as we dont owe much anymore. Could pay it off today, but you're correct, paying into the market is a better move and we have been doing it. Thought a few years out was a reasonable goal in the meantime.
 
He's not really yelling at you. He's yelling at those who dont know how to handle it the way you do. I do the same, I run everything through my credit card and get cash back. Pay off the cc right away with cash I have and then take the rewards cash and invest it. DR gets a lot of flack, but his theory is still sound. There seem to be way more people who need to hear than dont. Which is scary.
A professor I had at ISU had one of the best off-topic conversations about credit cards during a lecture. She wanted them banned from being able to solicit on college campuses because most 18-22 year olds don't use them correctly and fall into the trap of getting buried in CC debt. That led to a lot of good conversation and life advice that hopefully some in class that day were able to take and make some good choices.

Like you I don't carry a balance on a CC and use them exclusively to save some money through cash back rewards. Even if some of the rewards are just 1% that still add up over time especially if you are able to use your CC to pay subscriptions and services you use regularly. If you don't have money in the bank to pay your CC bill then probably a good sign to change your spending habits. It's also a quick and easy way for young adults to build up good credit so they don't have issues getting financing for bigger purchases later like buying a home.
 
A professor I had at ISU had one of the best off-topic conversations about credit cards during a lecture. She wanted them banned from being able to solicit on college campuses because most 18-22 year olds don't use them correctly and fall into the trap of getting buried in CC debt. That led to a lot of good conversation and life advice that hopefully some in class that day were able to take and make some good choices.

Like you I don't carry a balance on a CC and use them exclusively to save some money through cash back rewards. Even if some of the rewards are just 1% that still add up over time especially if you are able to use your CC to pay subscriptions and services you use regularly. If you don't have money in the bank to pay your CC bill then probably a good sign to change your spending habits. It's also a quick and easy way for young adults to build up good credit so they don't have issues getting financing for bigger purchases later like buying a home.

Ha, my son turned 21 and he gets one or two of these a week in the mail. Wife and I were chuckling about it. So predatory but it works. I had 2 in college, what an idiot I was with them too.
 
How is a couple getting $8,000 to $10,000 per month in retirement income without having $2,000,000+ in retirement investments? If you're taking out 4% per year, to allow a little room for growth to combat inflation and dips in the market, that combined with social security gets you to around that $8k-10k/month number post tax (if your retirement investments are in a Roth account it could be a little under that $2m number).
Three prong approach, SS, investments and their either a pension or some other type of 401K program. If you are trying to do it on SS and investments alone you are rarely going to reach that number. Our post tax income each month is between 10 and 11K a month, taking about 4% from our investments and that money has remained steady for over a decade.
 
Paying off your mortgage early is probably one of the worst things you can do if you are trying to build wealth assuming you're earning a greater percent of return on investments that you're paying on interest with your mortgage.

We were fortunate enough (like many) to refinance at a sub-3% interest rate back during COVID. We could start to pay our mortgage off much more aggressively, but it makes zero sense to do so when average rate on return in the market over time has been much greater than 3%. Add in the tax deductions for mortgage interest and you're even further ahead.

I've worked in mortgage for most of my career and you would not believe the number of peope taking out large mortgages who could write a check for the house they're buying 5-10x over. It's exactly for this reason.
Bought my first house last year at 6.75% and I'm paying down a bit extra now since extra principle payments in year 1 can cut years off your mortgage. If a 15 year refinance drops to 5% I'll be paying the same monthly since I've paid down a small chunk already.

But yeah if you have 3% then you'd be throwing away money paying down anything extra. Even treasury bonds and money markets are above 3% now so it's literally zero risk to beat paying down your mortgage
 
Yeah I get that. Ours is at 2.125% which is why its been a slower payoff since 2022/23 where we refi'd. This is a personal goal now of just being debt free as we dont owe much anymore. Could pay it off today, but you're correct, paying into the market is a better move and we have been doing it. Thought a few years out was a reasonable goal in the meantime.
The key here is two-fold. The obvious one is the interest rate. If we were sitting on a 6%+ interest rate like many are right now I would probably have a different point of view. The other variable is what you're doing with that money instead. If you're just letting it sit in checking/savings or - even worse - spending that money on other $hit you don't really need (e.g. more expensive cars), it's a bad strategy. It's really just an exercise in deployment of your own personal capital.

Also, as you get closer to retirement age there may be signifiant benefit to the reduction in monthly living expenses depending what kind of retirement income you can anticipate.

So this probably doesn't apply to everyone, but it can be the right strategy for many. I have the same discussion with my mother who - thankfully - is compeltely debt free. She finally got a new car for the first time in like 10 years and was offered some crazy interest rate under 2%. She didn't want to go "into debt". I'm trying to convince here that using loans as a financial tool is how wealthy people get wealthier. Being in debt means you owe more than you own. Taking a sub 2% interest rate on an auto loan and putting that cash into the market where you're getting 5% or more is not "debt" - it's smart.
 
I have been retired for 2 years. It is very enjoyable. Things you should do before retiring: pay off house or get a smaller house, pay off vehicles, get Roth IRA set up, get health check ups, exercise, beef up your HSA, estimate your life expectancy. Once you have a certain sized nest egg, you can basically live off the growth/dividends without even touching the principle (especially if you have a Roth). At age 73, you will have RMDs, and if your IRA balance is too high, you will be hit with high taxes. That is why Roths and Roth transfers are advantageous. No one in my family has surpassed the age of 82 in the last 100 years, and I have 4 stents, so I am pretty sure I will not outlive my finances. There are financial managers like Fidelity, Schwab, Fischer, USBank who want to "guide" you, or you can just invest in index fund etfs yourself. If you are young - growth funds or NASDAQ, middle age - value funds or SP500, senior - add some dividends and bonds. After about age 50, things start to fall into place: kids are through college, mortgage paid, student loans paid, possible inheritance, financial bad habits corrected, and definitely keep zero credit card balance. Don't pay off you mortgage too early though. You get tax deductions and higher alternative ROR having the mortgage.
 
Three prong approach, SS, investments and their either a pension or some other type of 401K program. If you are trying to do it on SS and investments alone you are rarely going to reach that number. Our post tax income each month is between 10 and 11K a month, taking about 4% from our investments and that money has remained steady for over a decade.
'Some other type of 401k' would certainly count towards that $2m number. Pensions are a little trickier because its true there is no value other than the income they generate for the recipient/spouse, but I think its pretty fair to say a couple that has $10k+/mo retirement income while taking out investments at a 4% annual rate has an effective net worth of north of $2m.
 
The current idea that you need $2 to $2.5 million to retire is a myth that most Americans are not going to come close to reaching. It also depends totally on where you live. If you house is paid off, little to no other debt, you should be able to live fine on around 4 to 5 grand a month per person. The biggest trap for many retirees is inflation, their income is fixed while their expenses increase because of the purchasing power of the dollar goes down as they age. So $1000 dollars today, will be worth around $700 dollars in a decade, which most retirees do not account for.
The fixed income thing can either be wrong or self inflicted. If you invest money and planned, the withdrawal rate will be 2-3% below the gain to allow it to grow with inflation. Then throw in SS has COLA adjustments.
 
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Bought my first house last year at 6.75% and I'm paying down a bit extra now since extra principle payments in year 1 can cut years off your mortgage. If a 15 year refinance drops to 5% I'll be paying the same monthly since I've paid down a small chunk already.

But yeah if you have 3% then you'd be throwing away money paying down anything extra. Even treasury bonds and money markets are above 3% now so it's literally zero risk to beat paying down your mortgage
We purchased our new home in Ames two years ago this coming May, we are also at 6.75, and have been paying it down each month. Plan on refinancing when rates get into the fours. Our investment planner had us pay down $100,000 on the principal last summer. Looking at current rates we plan on moving from a 30 years loan with 28 years left to a 10 to 15 year loan, which should save us around $1000 a month over what we are currently paying. Just waiting for rates to drop.
 
I knew my Pokemon cards were going to pay off!
 
Bought my first house last year at 6.75% and I'm paying down a bit extra now since extra principle payments in year 1 can cut years off your mortgage. If a 15 year refinance drops to 5% I'll be paying the same monthly since I've paid down a small chunk already.

But yeah if you have 3% then you'd be throwing away money paying down anything extra. Even treasury bonds and money markets are above 3% now so it's literally zero risk to beat paying down your mortgage
Moving to a 15 year loan at some point is a good strategy for a lot of people. One thing I've always heard good loan officers suggest is to make sure that payment on the 15 year isn't going to be a stretch. If you stay at a 30 year, you have a lower minimum monthly payment and can - to your point - always pay down extra as you are able - without the pressure of having to do it every month. There is, of course, usually a benefit in interest rate if you're willing/able to go to a 15 year.

One other huge mistake that I see people make is refinancing deeper into their amortization because they get sold on the lower payment. While that may be enticing - or even necessary - you've got to look at (1) the cost of the refinance (usually a couple percent of your loan amount) and (2) the longer term cost in restting your amortization curve. People in the business would call this your "break even point" - meaning how many years out it actually makes financial sense to have done the refinance.

Mathematically, a refinance earlier in your term makes more sense than it does doing it much later.

Here is a good calculator to keep handy (or just google "refinance break even point") when that time comes:


Keep in mind a lender is always going to sell you on the lower monthly payment because that's how they generate revenue. Only the really good ones trying to build a long term, trusting relationship with you will give you the advice not to depending on your circumstance.

@1SEIACLONE - Saw your post after I shared this. A good tool to have and great that you're getting advice from a financial planner and not just a mortgage company (to my point about their incentives). I don't want to paint mortgage professionals as bad (I've worked for several mortgage lenders and there are far more good people in that business than bad people), but a financial planner's incentives are more aligned with your own when it comes to your home loans.
 
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Looking back, I would put myself in the category of going from the bottom to the top as it coincided with my life / age. Was in my early 30’s in 08. At the time I was still paying on a low amount of student loans, had just relocated for work, so bought a house (probably too much for/at the time), and our youngest was born in the Spring with significant and lifelong health conditions. At the time I was working for a building materials manufacturer, so those that are old enough will understand what was staring us in the face in 2008. I might of had mid 5 figures in my 401k but that was getting ready to go for a ride.

Fast forward…….In the 18 years since (crazy to think / type that). Several job changes, helped pay for my oldest to go to ISU (graduated with no debt - he has yet to realize how much of an advantage that is, but he will). Still in the same house and could pay it off today but would rather put that money to better use. By most measures, we are easily on track with our stage in life. Next goal is how can we slow down and enjoy what we have worked to build, and ultimately, retire early.

Perhaps my most proud achievement is doing it all on one income. Not going to lie, as it wasn’t easy and we had to say “no” a lot, but doing so has provided us with the opportunity to now say “yes” to some of our wants.
 
A professor I had at ISU had one of the best off-topic conversations about credit cards during a lecture. She wanted them banned from being able to solicit on college campuses because most 18-22 year olds don't use them correctly and fall into the trap of getting buried in CC debt. That led to a lot of good conversation and life advice that hopefully some in class that day were able to take and make some good choices.

Like you I don't carry a balance on a CC and use them exclusively to save some money through cash back rewards. Even if some of the rewards are just 1% that still add up over time especially if you are able to use your CC to pay subscriptions and services you use regularly. If you don't have money in the bank to pay your CC bill then probably a good sign to change your spending habits. It's also a quick and easy way for young adults to build up good credit so they don't have issues getting financing for bigger purchases later like buying a home.

I was in a freshmen seminar, led by two upperclassmen for a scholarship I was part of. The woman was talking about credit cards, and how paying the minimum balance was a good way to build your credit history and credit score. The guy leader handled it well, and said that she was correct that it would build your credit history, but cost you a tremendous amount of money. He spouted the whole $12 pizza would cost you $500 on minimum payments, or whatever the math showed.

That was 25 years ago and I still can picture his face!
 
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'Some other type of 401k' would certainly count towards that $2m number. Pensions are a little trickier because its true there is no value other than the income they generate for the recipient/spouse, but I think its pretty fair to say a couple that has $10k+/mo retirement income while taking out investments at a 4% annual rate has an effective net worth of north of $2m.
We are no where near $2 million in net worth if the house is not included. The way we structured our IPERS pensions will allow the surviving spouse to continue to draw the current monthly amount until both of us are gone. So no drop in monthly payment when one of us passes. We lose a little each month over the #1 plan where you maxed it out, but this way the surviving spouse will not have to worry about that part of our 3 prong approach. Our current monthly payouts are $2800 SS, $4000 from IPERS and $4000 from investments, all post tax numbers. The only one of those that should change is the SS number will drop when one of us passes.
 
Paying off your mortgage early is probably one of the worst things you can do if you are trying to build wealth assuming you're earning a greater percent of return on investments that you're paying on interest with your mortgage.

We were fortunate enough (like many) to refinance at a sub-3% interest rate back during COVID. We could start to pay our mortgage off much more aggressively, but it makes zero sense to do so when average rate on return in the market over time has been much greater than 3%. Add in the tax deductions for mortgage interest and you're even further ahead.

I've worked in mortgage for most of my career and you would not believe the number of peope taking out large mortgages who could write a check for the house they're buying 5-10x over. It's exactly for this reason.
If looking at the pure numbers, absolutely that generally ends up being a good play.

On the other hand the rebuttal is, "why didn't anyone cash-out the house they have paid off to invest it in the market in 2020-2021 if it's such a no brainer?" The answer is because the peace of mind and $0 risk is worth more to most than the potential additional earnings in the market.
 
Net worth is a bit of a crude/weird calculation anyway; how often does someone liquidate all their assets, pay off their debts, and walk away with a pile of cash? And all of the assets wrapped into that number have different jobs over different time horizons.

Besides, if you're calculating net worth it's easy enough to slice that up any number of ways to arrive at a more useful number: net worth without the house, net worth without college savings, value of your retirement assets only, and so on. It's probably more useful to focus on your individual goals and whether you're on track to meet them anyway.
God forbid something happens to my wife but if so, I'm liquidating everything and becoming a hermit or nomad.
 
If looking at the pure numbers, absolutely that generally ends up being a good play.

On the other hand the rebuttal is, "why didn't anyone cash-out the house they have paid off to invest it in the market in 2020-2021 if it's such a no brainer?" The answer is because the peace of mind and $0 risk is worth more to most than the potential additional earnings in the market.

That is a valid point, but QQQ has lapped my home value many times over.

My total net worth is roughly 12% home equity.

And even if I pay off the house I still have $1400/mo for tax and insurance. We never truly own our homes. The extra $$ at 2.9% interest? I have to put that in the market.

Even a money market pays more than 2.9%

But I get where you're coming from. It's a classic and defensible position
 
That is a valid point, but QQQ has lapped my home value many times over.

My total net worth is roughly 12% home equity.

And even if I pay off the house I still have $1400/mo for tax and insurance. We never truly own our homes. The extra $$ at 2.9% interest? I have to put that in the market.

Even a money market pays more than 2.9%

But I get where you're coming from. It's a classic and defensible position
When you do the interest spread also factor what you are investing in and how it affects taxes. If you are in a money market add the top tax brackets you are in to the rate needed. If you are going long term gains and not taking interest payments, then factor that amount into the gain rate you would need.

If you have a 3% mortgage rate, you are basically breaking even with a 4% MMA.