I absolutely and completely see it! Detailed answers to questions about which you have thought at length! <3
That also doesn't surprise me at all. I can also come across as extroverted - I have found the phrase "extroverted introvert," and it feels like it sort of describes how I feel most of the time. I can be very social with people I trust and with whom I enjoy speaking - I just don't want to insert myself or to strike up a deliberately dull and uninteresting conversation. Life is too short for that.
INTJs are also sarcastic and have dark humor - who'd have guessed, eh?
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Yeah, I've occasionally thought about going full Unabomber. But really feels like that would be a lot of work.
Also, I do have enough empathy to make it not really a thing.
I must be the second extrovert.
This surprises no one. The overlap between Libertarians and INTJ's is extremely high, especially for men.
I would probably call myself a small “l” type, but I generally agree with this.
The long posts and love of spreadsheets are a big hint. Apparently it is the most rare personality trait at 2% and especially for women with just 0.8% of the population. Not a lot of Angie's out there.
INTJ. We're typically clueless in romance because we tend to place little/no emphasis on following mindless social norms, prefer to be courted, don't care for small talk, think big picture, and value our time (and especially our time alone). We also have a small group of friends because long periods of time can go on in between contact, and most people don't understand that it's just part of being INTJ.
Great at projects and direction/management/working alone.
But I find I really need to recharge by being alone after being "on" in public settings.