Am I a bad person?

[Dr.bannedman]

No. I’m not.

Are you at least drinking?

 

[ClonesInDallas]

I don't think you're a bad person for not wanting to go, in fact I think that's the right decision if you're not feeling well. But trying to govern her own decision is ******

 

[Dr.bannedman]

I don't think you're a bad person for not wanting to go, in fact I think that's the right decision if you're not feeling well. But trying to govern her own decision is ******

marriages are partnerships. You and your partner have to be in the same page. Her driving 12 hours with a 15 month old just isn’t safe or doable. We actually have a very good line of communication and talk through our issues.

 

[AuH2O]

I love how a negative COVID test has people thinking you should just go visit people when you are sick.

 

[Cyismymonkey]

I'm feeling conflicted.

Spending Christmas without your wife and kid might be tough.

 

[simply1]

marriages are partnerships. You and your partner have to be in the same page. Her driving 12 hours with a 15 month old just isn’t safe or doable. We actually have a very good line of communication and talk through our issues.

And I’m glad you got to an agreement, because putting her in a situation where she can’t go because of safely traveling with a 15 month on her own, would be a pretty ****** way to handle it.

 

[FarmClone]

Have you asked her parents what they think? If they are good with it you should be too.

 

[Dr.bannedman]

Have you asked her parents what they think? If they are good with it you should be too.

yep. she discussed it with her mom. we are no longer heading that way.

 

[ChamplinCyclone22]

Based wife

 

[BoxsterCy]