I lived in two county seat towns in southern Iowa until I was four, far from the big city, and my memories of each are idyllic. Both were small. We had a big yard and porch, and rabbits, and played outside, and knew our neighbors. People were friendly. It was safe. An older couple was like grandparents to us kids. I remember watching Sunday football at a the house of a friend of my Dad’s. We fished and camped at parks just outside of each. It was actually somewhat like Mayberry, which was on television at the time. A year before I started school, we moved to a farm near the towns where my parents grew up, which is where I graduated from high school.
I’ll write a little about the smaller towns outside of Council Bluffs.
Some of the smaller schools not far outside the city tend to punch above their weight relative to the past, compared to larger schools, which aren’t as close. The closer you are, the more opportunities. Not only are at least a few new people moving in from outside these towns but many have lived there for generations. People don’t necessarily have to leave for as good or better career opportunities.
It has probably been 25 years, but when Iowa first started publishing 8th grade math and reading scores, Treynor’s were the highest in the state. Neighboring towns weren’t, say, second or third, but not that far behind them. Relative to neighboring towns, Treynor is closer to the city, and was growing faster with more new housing stock, with a smaller percentage of kids on reduced-price school lunch.
You get further away, say, just for example, Shenandoah or Clarinda, and I think there are probably fewer school age children than in the past, as a percentage of their population.
That is not to say any of these are bad places to live, but reflect certain demographic changes that go way back. The smaller towns near Council Bluffs not only offer better career opportunities in a general sense given their proximity to the city, and greater sports and extracurricular participation, but better opportunities to specialize in a particular sport or activity if you wanted to. It is an easy commute from any of these smaller towns, but the closer you are, obviously, the quicker. There could even be opportunities in local law enforcement.
Moving in to one of these towns, since a large part of the population is likely to have lived there for generations, it can take awhile to get acclimated. But people are mostly friendly, and you can control how much you want to get involved.
Within Pottawattamie County, Underwood and Treynor are growing faster and have a higher percentage of people that commute. Historically, the towns that are further away have more local small businesses. I could be mistaken, but I think I read within the past year, likely in the Council Bluffs Nonpareil, of a proposed new housing development in Neola, large relative to the size of that town. Avoca and Oakland are bigger towns but not as close to Omaha-Council Bluffs.
If you were to work in Omaha, obviously you might prefer to live in Nebraska instead.
If you didn’t want to live right in Le Mars, you might prefer a neighboring town.