Random Thoughts 14: I can see clearly now 2020 edition

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Need some advice.

Grandpa that had the stroke wants us to come over. We werent planning on it because we were at a restaurant Friday. We both think bringing the dogs over would be a good boost for him, but I dont want to potentially drag anything in. But, with his stroke, who knows how long he has. What would you guys do?
 
Need some advice.

Grandpa that had the stroke wants us to come over. We werent planning on it because we were at a restaurant Friday. We both think bringing the dogs over would be a good boost for him, but I dont want to potentially drag anything in. But, with his stroke, who knows how long he has. What would you guys do?
Daughter just tested positive for COVID and we are all under the weather now so I'm pretty sure we all have it. We have been pretty careful, too, but they have both had days at school.

I guess I am saying be careful.
 
Yesterday I mowed and bagged up the leaves in the front and side. Now I have to do the back where the majority of leaves are. While I hate stopping the mower constantly to empty the bag, it's still better then raking.
Okay, this isn't the same thing as the lady who blew her leaves into a freshly cleared yard but is still frustrating.

We have a neighborhood with quite a few trees. Everyone around us is really good about clearing leaves out of their yard. It is a constant battle because we all have trees that dump at different times but we are all pretty good about it. We know that we will have to clear leaves when our trees dump and when our neighbor's trees dump. All are good about it, that is, except for the guy behind me. He has two trees that dump relatively late and he never takes care of them. Mrs. Velo and I spent several hours cleaning up our yard for about the dozenth time this fall on Friday. All of the trees are nearly done so we should have just a little cleanup in a week or so. But the guy behind us has had pretty much his entire yard covered for a couple of weeks. Of course the strong winds last night means that about half of his leaves are now in my yard and our next door neighbor's yard. I am resisting the temptation to passive aggressively blow them back in his yard or go over there and ask him if he plans to ever clean up. I guess there will be matted down leaves along his fence next spring like there have been every year since he moved in. That also means that there will be a big collection of leaves on the corner of my property where two fences come together in the spring as well.

It's also a tree health issue. I know that on my maples and my next door neighbor's maples there was tar spot on some leaves this year. I don't know about the neighbor in question's maples, though. If the tar covered leaves aren't taken care of this fall the tar will be back and likely worse next year.
 
Okay, this isn't the same thing as the lady who blew her leaves into a freshly cleared yard but is still frustrating.

We have a neighborhood with quite a few trees. Everyone around us is really good about clearing leaves out of their yard. It is a constant battle because we all have trees that dump at different times but we are all pretty good about it. We know that we will have to clear leaves when our trees dump and when our neighbor's trees dump. All are good about it, that is, except for the guy behind me. He has two trees that dump relatively late and he never takes care of them. Mrs. Velo and I spent several hours cleaning up our yard for about the dozenth time this fall on Friday. All of the trees are nearly done so we should have just a little cleanup in a week or so. But the guy behind us has had pretty much his entire yard covered for a couple of weeks. Of course the strong winds last night means that about half of his leaves are now in my yard and our next door neighbor's yard. I am resisting the temptation to passive aggressively blow them back in his yard or go over there and ask him if he plans to ever clean up. I guess there will be matted down leaves along his fence next spring like there have been every year since he moved in. That also means that there will be a big collection of leaves on the corner of my property where two fences come together in the spring as well.

It's also a tree health issue. I know that on my maples and my next door neighbor's maples there was tar spot on some leaves this year. I don't know about the neighbor in question's maples, though. If the tar covered leaves aren't taken care of this fall the tar will be back and likely worse next year.
Blow them back in his yard and wet them down so they’re stuck to his property
 
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Need some advice.

Grandpa that had the stroke wants us to come over. We werent planning on it because we were at a restaurant Friday. We both think bringing the dogs over would be a good boost for him, but I dont want to potentially drag anything in. But, with his stroke, who knows how long he has. What would you guys do?
Whatever you do, talk to the other family members first. You don’t wanna be the person that made the decision and everybody else accuses you if you would happen to come down with it

My wife told me yesterday of a friend’s father who just passed away and his place and kept them in quarantine since March so the rest of the family has been unable to visit him since then so for eight months he basically live by himself I can understand that be pretty lonely
 
Okay, this isn't the same thing as the lady who blew her leaves into a freshly cleared yard but is still frustrating.

We have a neighborhood with quite a few trees. Everyone around us is really good about clearing leaves out of their yard. It is a constant battle because we all have trees that dump at different times but we are all pretty good about it. We know that we will have to clear leaves when our trees dump and when our neighbor's trees dump. All are good about it, that is, except for the guy behind me. He has two trees that dump relatively late and he never takes care of them. Mrs. Velo and I spent several hours cleaning up our yard for about the dozenth time this fall on Friday. All of the trees are nearly done so we should have just a little cleanup in a week or so. But the guy behind us has had pretty much his entire yard covered for a couple of weeks. Of course the strong winds last night means that about half of his leaves are now in my yard and our next door neighbor's yard. I am resisting the temptation to passive aggressively blow them back in his yard or go over there and ask him if he plans to ever clean up. I guess there will be matted down leaves along his fence next spring like there have been every year since he moved in. That also means that there will be a big collection of leaves on the corner of my property where two fences come together in the spring as well.

It's also a tree health issue. I know that on my maples and my next door neighbor's maples there was tar spot on some leaves this year. I don't know about the neighbor in question's maples, though. If the tar covered leaves aren't taken care of this fall the tar will be back and likely worse next year.
The winds yesterday was one of the reasons I got out there yesterday morning. I didn't want them to blow around too much. There's always going to be some no matter what. There are still leaves to fall. I will need to just run the mower over them once or twice in the next week or so.
 
Need some advice.

Grandpa that had the stroke wants us to come over. We werent planning on it because we were at a restaurant Friday. We both think bringing the dogs over would be a good boost for him, but I dont want to potentially drag anything in. But, with his stroke, who knows how long he has. What would you guys do?

I'd wait a few weeks and limit interactions, get tested if possible before going.
Maybe see about a nice weekend day to be able to hang out outside to be able to keep distance. May be good for him to get some time outside as it is.
 
Need some advice.

Grandpa that had the stroke wants us to come over. We werent planning on it because we were at a restaurant Friday. We both think bringing the dogs over would be a good boost for him, but I dont want to potentially drag anything in. But, with his stroke, who knows how long he has. What would you guys do?

Is there a porch you can all sit on and keep some distance? Skip the hugs when arriving or leaving. I'm a big believer in fresh air and distance.
 
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Whatever you do, talk to the other family members first. You don’t wanna be the person that made the decision and everybody else accuses you if you would happen to come down with it

My wife told me yesterday of a friend’s father who just passed away and his place and kept them in quarantine since March so the rest of the family has been unable to visit him since then so for eight months he basically live by himself I can understand that be pretty lonely


Good point you don't want to be the one everyone says they gave grampa the Covid and killed him.
 
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Welp saw 1st hand the damage a "Karen" can cause. Stopped to get some chicken and as I pulled up to the drive up window, there is a teen age girl doing her very best to quit crying tears running down her cheeks and nose sniffling the whole 9 yards. All I could say was "Wow your day is going a lot worse than mine you going to be ok?) She apologized then told me what happened the lady ahead of me went totally off on her, complaining that she wasn't paying attention etc.. called her a dumb b*tch etc... started to complain that drive thru girl needed to her wait for her to find the correct change etc then she threw all the change at her through the window. The girl said I knew I couldn't be mean back so she just took it and ended up in tears. I think just having a friendly ear to talk to because by the time she finished telling me the story she was getting more composed. I had to pull over and wait for the chicken by the time she ran it out to me she seemed to be doing better and I told her I hope the rest of your day goes better.

The "Karen" was driving a black H2 Hummer, I hope Karma bites her and she gets a flat and has to change those big *ss tires on her own.

Why in the world would anyone want to make a drive thru order person cry? Unluckily there are too many crappy people in the world.
 
Welp saw 1st hand the damage a "Karen" can cause. Stopped to get some chicken and as I pulled up to the drive up window, there is a teen age girl doing her very best to quit crying tears running down her cheeks and nose sniffling the whole 9 yards. All I could say was "Wow your day is going a lot worse than mine you going to be ok?) She apologized then told me what happened the lady ahead of me went totally off on her, complaining that she wasn't paying attention etc.. called her a dumb b*tch etc... started to complain that drive thru girl needed to her wait for her to find the correct change etc then she threw all the change at her through the window. The girl said I knew I couldn't be mean back so she just took it and ended up in tears. I think just having a friendly ear to talk to because by the time she finished telling me the story she was getting more composed. I had to pull over and wait for the chicken by the time she ran it out to me she seemed to be doing better and I told her I hope the rest of your day goes better.

The "Karen" was driving a black H2 Hummer, I hope Karma bites her and she gets a flat and has to change those big *ss tires on her own.

Why in the world would anyone want to make a drive thru order person cry? Unluckily there are too many crappy people in the world.
I'm glad you were able to give the young lady some of your time to help her feel a bit better. Some people just suck
 
I worked at McDonald’s when the McRib was introduced. A sloppy mess that was boiling hot slapped in paper. So many complaints about burns and destroyed clothes from the bbq sauce.
 
Cyclones won
Hawkeyes lost
Vikings beat the Packers
Bears lost
Huskers have worn out their welcome in the b1g

Overall, not a bad weekend.

Except for time change BS
 
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Welp saw 1st hand the damage a "Karen" can cause. Stopped to get some chicken and as I pulled up to the drive up window, there is a teen age girl doing her very best to quit crying tears running down her cheeks and nose sniffling the whole 9 yards. All I could say was "Wow your day is going a lot worse than mine you going to be ok?) She apologized then told me what happened the lady ahead of me went totally off on her, complaining that she wasn't paying attention etc.. called her a dumb b*tch etc... started to complain that drive thru girl needed to her wait for her to find the correct change etc then she threw all the change at her through the window. The girl said I knew I couldn't be mean back so she just took it and ended up in tears. I think just having a friendly ear to talk to because by the time she finished telling me the story she was getting more composed. I had to pull over and wait for the chicken by the time she ran it out to me she seemed to be doing better and I told her I hope the rest of your day goes better.

The "Karen" was driving a black H2 Hummer, I hope Karma bites her and she gets a flat and has to change those big *ss tires on her own.

Why in the world would anyone want to make a drive thru order person cry? Unluckily there are too many crappy people in the world.

Good for you. I think we never know when situations will arise/confront us that help us see who we are. And just a thought about the Hummer lady, perhaps she was having an awful day, too.

I remember a conference session where, as I recall, the speaker was to help us be more cognizant of our world. They showed a still shot of the inside of a cafe/coffee shop and highlighted several people's faces. Smiling waitress, impatient businessman, grumpy looking college student, etc.
We talked about how we would and should react to each of them based on their posture and facial "features." Then the speaker added a layer of thought bubbles over each of the people we just discussed. The waitress was nearly out of money and couldn't get something her young kids needed - like food. The grumpy student just lost a friend to suicide and wondered what he should have done to prevent it. The businessman was about to lose his job and didn't know how to tell his wife.

Those slides have stuck with me for years, and I probably give the benefit of the doubt more than I should. Because there are just plain nasty people in the world, too.
 
As I've gotten older, I tend to let my anger dissipate a lot quicker than I used to. But I've never had much patience for people who direct their anger toward others. My brother has some anger management issues, and he can get physical at times. I guess it's the "I'm hurting and I'm going to take everyone else down with me!" approach.

I still find compassion to be one of the most important parts of psychological make-up.....and it seems a commodity in very short supply these days.
 
Dang. I've had 3 of them (over 10-12 years), and I ride it hard and put it away wet. Works like a team of horses for me.

Did you try to get it replaced under warranty?
No, I never tried. Worse yet. like so much other junk, it is still taking up space in my garage
 
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