CycloneErik
Well-Known Member
I generally avoid saying much because nothing I say is going to help. Plus I am not religious, at all, so don't/can't go there.
Maybe I've been lucky myself that I haven't really been close to anyone who died young. Pretty much everyone I have known who died was elderly. I am a lucky charm. Know me and live into your 80's. Seriously, I should be something actuaries calc in life expectancy. Although I think it's only good as long as I myself is still alive. The charm dies when I do.
Best thing you can say in most of these situations is just to be present so people know you care. Things like gift cards that meet real needs are good, too. Words are just empty answers that don't really help at that point, religious or not.
On other notes, Valpo begins their official review of applicant stuff tomorrow. I'll be on edge to one degree or another all week.