Shared Hotel Rooms for Work

I would find a new job but that is my two cents. Those cheap asses can find different ways to cut costs.
 
This is right. Our CEO's message was all about "we are returning to our roots." So he's viewing it as "we are returning to our normal course of business, which includes shared rooms." But the company has changed a lot in the last two years. We've onboarded hundreds of people that came in NOT having to share rooms, and haven't for two years.

Yes, all those people were told "oh by the way we share hotel rooms during non-COVID times" but I can guarantee a large percentage of them are thinking about that a lot harder now that it's a reality.
This reads to me like a company having financial issues. But i could be off base.
 
I need some advice on this…

I started at my current company in Fall 2020. Prior to COVID, they had a “shared hotel room” policy. Opposite sex are exempt, but basically the policy is “if you are traveling with someone else, you’re expected to share a room.” They just reinstated the policy this week.

The CEO’s line is all about “family culture” and “small company feel.” He did acknowledge the cost savings in his announcement, which I’m sure is the real driver.

I travel a lot for work; 1-2 nights every week. I’m probably alone 80% of the time but I will travel with someone else once every few months. I have to say, I am 100% against this policy. I like my privacy and honestly have a lot of anxiety around sharing a room with a coworker.

I should mention, this is not a startup. We have 700 employees and over $200M in revenue every year.

Anyone have some truthful and respectable ways to tell my boss I’m not on board?

If you travel that much that rule is a bunch of crap. So here is what you do... don't do it.

Stop doubling up rooms and make the boss talk to YOU about it. And when that time comes then you have the green light to tell them that as much as you travel that you NEED that alone time to work. And since it's apparently ok to room alone when traveling alone then it should be ok to room alone the other small fraction of time. But make them come to you.
 
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This is right. Our CEO's message was all about "we are returning to our roots." So he's viewing it as "we are returning to our normal course of business, which includes shared rooms." But the company has changed a lot in the last two years. We've onboarded hundreds of people that came in NOT having to share rooms, and haven't for two years.

Yes, all those people were told "oh by the way we share hotel rooms during non-COVID times" but I can guarantee a large percentage of them are thinking about that a lot harder now that it's a reality.
So you're pitching the cell phone and not working on the weekends? :)
 
I have so many questions:

A) Who gets the remote?
B) Is there some kind of assumed/implied policy on using the bathroom?
C) Is the time of the alarm negotiated?
D) Do you discuss the temperature of the room?
E) When you unpack do you go straight to the dressers or do you talk through whose stuff goes where?
F) Does the sock on the door technique have application beyond college?
I know every hotel room I've ever been in has had two desks/work stations, so at least that wouldn't be an issue.
 
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I’m not sure I’ve been in a normal Hampton or Holiday Inn type room that has had two of them. Usually the dresser, desk, chair and bed/beds.
Lol, I was kidding. Just my lame attempt at pointing out, in addition to the other guy's list, that deciding who gets the desk would be another weird aspect of coworkers sharing a room.
 
Lol, I was kidding. Just my lame attempt at pointing out, in addition to the other guy's list, that deciding who gets the desk would be another weird aspect of coworkers sharing a room.

Gotcha. I thought I might be in a bit of a different class when traveling. Lol
 
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I’m not sure I’ve been in a normal Hampton or Holiday Inn type room that has had two of them. Usually the dresser, desk, chair and bed/beds.
Employee - "can I use the desk so I can finish the presentation for tomorrow?"
Co-worker - "I need this desk so I can video chat with my friend" "Also, could you go to the hotel bar for a couple of hours?"
 
Gotcha. I thought I might be in a bit of a different class when traveling. Lol
Ha, no. Most of the time I'd be traveling with a VP or a senior sales person and since they'd have traveled to the client a few times prior to my trip, they'd determine which hotel we'd stay at. Usually it was your standard Hampton, Holiday Inn Express type place. Bigger cities we'd get nicer hotels usually. But a few of the ones I worked with a lot were pretty cheap and as a result... well, I've stayed in some interesting places.
 
Ha, no. Most of the time I'd be traveling with a VP or a senior sales person and since they'd have traveled to the client a few times prior to my trip, they'd determine which hotel we'd stay at. Usually it was your standard Hampton, Holiday Inn Express type place. Bigger cities we'd get nicer hotels usually. But a few of the ones I worked with a lot were pretty cheap and as a result... well, I've stayed in some interesting places.

Luckily when I travel lately it’s by myself and I don’t have to worry about other people. If I’m staying for 4 or 5 days (which is only a couple times a year) I’ve been going the airbnb route which has been both ok and ****** depending on the area. The family will usually tag along for at least one of these trips so having the kitchen and bedrooms is nice.
 
Luckily when I travel lately it’s by myself and I don’t have to worry about other people. If I’m staying for 4 or 5 days (which is only a couple times a year) I’ve been going the airbnb route which has been both ok and ****** depending on the area. The family will usually tag along for at least one of these trips so having the kitchen and bedrooms is nice.
Those were usually my favorite trips as well, partly because I'd then get to pick the hotel and up the game.
 
Our company still encourages sharing rooms. We only travel 2 -3 times a year and for a while I shared with the same co-worker, but he moved on. Since then I just make up an excuse to not share - not feeling well, snore, etc.

The old guys at the company talk about 4 people sharing rooms.

It really isn't appropriate for a company to ask this of their employees.
 
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Agreed. I should also add: I'm a Civil Engineer working for a construction company. So, it's not like I'm on a crew. I'm a licensed professional engineer with a masters degree and 15 years of industry experience. I'm far beyond the point where I'm willing to "bunk up" to save the company a few $.
CON E here and work for a large scale GC. We don’t share rooms. If it gets to that I’m sure you can find a job within a week.
 
Please report back after whatever conversation you have with management.

UPDATE

I broached the topic with my boss today. I started with "Can you fill me in on this hotel sharing thing? What do you think of all that?"

His response was "I'm a big proponent of this. I think it is critical to our culture. Nobody likes it, including me. But I never regret doing it." Ok - so everyone hates it but it's a critical part of our culture?!

I told him I'm an extremely light sleeper and would struggle to get good rest if I'm with someone who snores. He said "Yeah, there are certain exceptions and this isn't a hard and fast rule. Just use your best judgment."

Basically the way I read it is: if I'm doing every work travel, you can probably skirt by with separate rooms. But when we do larger company meetings or trainings, it would be hard to not bunk with someone unless you have a very specific issue with it.
 
UPDATE

I broached the topic with my boss today. I started with "Can you fill me in on this hotel sharing thing? What do you think of all that?"

His response was "I'm a big proponent of this. I think it is critical to our culture. Nobody likes it, including me. But I never regret doing it." Ok - so everyone hates it but it's a critical part of our culture?!

I told him I'm an extremely light sleeper and would struggle to get good rest if I'm with someone who snores. He said "Yeah, there are certain exceptions and this isn't a hard and fast rule. Just use your best judgment."

Basically the way I read it is: if I'm doing every work travel, you can probably skirt by with separate rooms. But when we do larger company meetings or trainings, it would be hard to not bunk with someone unless you have a very specific issue with it.

If he wanted to shut you down, he would have put his foot down. It sounds like he knows your stance on it and probably won't do anything about it.

"Your best judgment" = separate rooms.
 
UPDATE

I broached the topic with my boss today. I started with "Can you fill me in on this hotel sharing thing? What do you think of all that?"

His response was "I'm a big proponent of this. I think it is critical to our culture. Nobody likes it, including me. But I never regret doing it." Ok - so everyone hates it but it's a critical part of our culture?!

I told him I'm an extremely light sleeper and would struggle to get good rest if I'm with someone who snores. He said "Yeah, there are certain exceptions and this isn't a hard and fast rule. Just use your best judgment."

Basically the way I read it is: if I'm doing every work travel, you can probably skirt by with separate rooms. But when we do larger company meetings or trainings, it would be hard to not bunk with someone unless you have a very specific issue with it.

Through this thread I now have a personal investment in a topic that has nothing to do with me.

This is absolute ****. There's no way that sleeping in the same room improves work culture. Zero chance. If you really want to improve culture, give everyone a big ol' per diem to go out and enjoy themselves. Have a nice meal together. Have some drinks together. Go see a game together. But there is nothing about the act of sharing a sleeping space that makes anyone closer together from a work culture standpoint. Total BS and call a spade a spade-- you're trying to save a few bucks.