I feel for the guy and what he is going through on a personal level, but ultimately I have never met him and likely never will. I wish the best for CW as well, but ultimately the reason I come to this site and listen to the CF content is because I want to hear about ISU athletics and college sports through an ISU lens. If CW wants to produce Matt Campbell content, that's fine and more power to him but I will not listen to it. I, and most of us, are interested in ISU.
I think it's true that he's never been an objective, neutral party. And he's made it clear over the years that he does get close to these coaches, players, and even folks in the AD. But always before, he's handled this conflict of interest much better. He's been very clear that he's got a personal relationship with TJ, but has handled that fairly professionally IMO. To me, the purpose of a post like this is just to say that I (and many others) do not enjoy listening to him talking up departed players and coaches. And my hope is that if people can say that in a calm, rational way without personal attacks it will get through to him and he will tone down the pro Campbell/Becht/Hoiberg talk on his podcasts.
The healthy way for the fanbase to process this is frustration, sadness, and then moving on and focusing on ISU. No hate, but also no love to those who have moved on. CW and a handful of others knew these people personally and it makes sense for them to grieve and try to maintain a connection. But for most of us, our only connection to these people was as fans of their sports teams. It would be an unhealthy parasocial relationship for us to take an interest in their lives outside of sports. Hearing folks like CW advocating for us to do that feels wrong and we'd like for him to stop asking us to do it.