My experience was similar and was pretty much like this.I wasn't really paying attention to the link and was trying to figure out what was NSFW. I was thinking it would be a basketball highlight with some questionable language or where he dunked over someone and the NSFW was said tongue-in-cheek due to the violent nature of said dunk.
I quickly figured it out.
Total dime.
That said I wouldn't want to be in a serious relationship with someone baring it all on the internet, if I were him. I'm sure he has plenty of options and could hunker down with another dime who isn't showing her goods to the world