Worst advice you ever got

My first advisor told me it was best to gap my classes. Take a 9, then 11, skip another for lunch so 1 and then 3. That way I would go to the library and study between classes. Yeah right, I hated semester. I packed them in after that. I also never heard my advisor ever again until I changed majors going into my third year and my new one contacted me and I thought I was in trouble.
Pack the classes the best you can 9-2. At Welch Ave by 2:30.
 
"If you are loyal to this company, we will reward you"

2 layoffs later this still hurts...


"The sooner you can be your own boss and control your income, the better" is what I wish someone had told me in my younger years
 
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My parents convinced my not to buy any bitcoin in its infancy with my graduation money.
I first heard about bitcoin around 2011 or 2012ish. I remember because I spent a good 6 hours trying to understand how a make believe thing could be worth $100. After researching ot I told my wife I wanted to put like a $1000 into it. I was shot down. No way. That’s stupid.

Granted, I probably would have sold it LONG before the peak but, it would have been worth probably at least a million at the peak.
 
"If you are loyal to this company, we will reward you"

2 layoffs later this still hurts...


"The sooner you can be your own boss and control your income, the better" is what I wish someone had told me in my younger years
First one reminds me of GOOD advice I almost posted in the other thread. Friend said "the company will take from you EVERYTHING that you ALLOW them to - it's up to you to decide when to say no because they will always ask for more".

And +1000000 on the bolded. I should have left my former company 10 years earlier than I did. Co-own small biz now, can't imagine working for anyone else ever again.
 
When I ran track in high school I was always a front runner. I ran the 800 with a first lap that was only seconds off of my 400 race time as I wasn't blessed with lightning speed. But I would build up a big lead and generally hold most other runners off as they made up time on the second 400. That worked for me to win my district and qualify for state. The day of the state meet my coach told me to try something different and go out a little slower and see what happens. Being a stupid teenager I did what he suggested and "tried something different" in the last track race of my career.

It didn't go well.
 
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A work friend convinced me to go out with her cousin who she said was a super nice guy. He became my worst first date story.
 
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You can't post that and NOT post the story. Come on, now.
I’ve posted it before. Kind of short version, was working a summer during college in DC. Guy takes me to a bar and grill, and insists on paying even though I wanted to pay for my $4.00 meal myself. Then says I owe him and expects sex. I walk out on him to go catch a train home by going out back door to alley that leads to subway. He follows me and jumps me. Beating me and holding a knife to my throat and cutting me when I fight back. Bouncers from the bar saw him and saved my life. So work friend’s cousin got 20 years and I was in the hospital for a week.
 
I’ve posted it before. Kind of short version, was working a summer during college in DC. Guy takes me to a bar and grill, and insists on paying even though I wanted to pay for my $4.00 meal myself. Then says I owe him and expects sex. I walk out on him to go catch a train home by going out back door to alley that leads to subway. He follows me and jumps me. Beating me and holding a knife to my throat and cutting me when I fight back. Bouncers from the bar saw him and saved my life. So work friend’s cousin got 20 years and I was in the hospital for a week.
JFC, I was expecting something lighthearted and funny. That sounds terrible.
 
JFC, I was expecting something lighthearted and funny. That sounds terrible.
It’s ok. After 42 years, less nightmares. But I caution anyone against getting talked into going out with someone they don’t know really well first. Glad I don’t deal with a dating app world, and even though I only have sons, I tell them to stick to dating people they actually know.
 
I’ve posted it before. Kind of short version, was working a summer during college in DC. Guy takes me to a bar and grill, and insists on paying even though I wanted to pay for my $4.00 meal myself. Then says I owe him and expects sex. I walk out on him to go catch a train home by going out back door to alley that leads to subway. He follows me and jumps me. Beating me and holding a knife to my throat and cutting me when I fight back. Bouncers from the bar saw him and saved my life. So work friend’s cousin got 20 years and I was in the hospital for a week.
Wow. That really sucks. Thank God you survived it,
 
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Brother and wife both teachers. Had the hardest time naming their kids, as one or the other would always have had a student they despised with about every name.
Daughter was telling me that a co-worker loves the Beatles and said he wants to name his kids (when he has some) after names in Beatles songs. That is all fine and good but wait until one of the kids learns that he is named Maxwell after a serial killer in a song.

 
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My sister for the last 20+ years has had a financial theory that includes things like:

"I'm going to spend what I have now, I'll never live long enough to retire".....she just turned 65.

When her husband had a heart attack last year, I mentioned that the one big positive was that he worked at a good company and LTD should help a lot......"Oh we never signed up for that". Like every single person in his family has had a heart attack in their 50's.

They've been living in this house for at least 15 years. They have nearly zero equity because of 2nd mortgages to pay for things like horses, camaros, golf carts (don't golf), tanning beds, etc.

The sad part is that the husband's income has been good for decades but they have zero to show for it.
That's sad. Soon they'll become a burden on their kids.