Seriously, who even looks at the groomsmens' shoes? Paintball, golf, or disc golf all sounds better than the traditional bachelor's party. My husband went to a cabin and played poker and drank for his. Went to a wedding where they just had a best man and he got so plastered the night before that he didn't show up to the wedding, drunk and lost, and the bride's brother filled in.
Yeah. It isn't that big of deal. Just disorganized so far. Golfing won't be so bad. I am just going to borrow my grandfather in-law's clubs buy a couple sleeves of brightly colored balls and when those are gone just drive the cart.