Thinking about moving out of Iowa

Im actually closing on a house in Beaverdale tomorrow after being in CR(Hiawatha) for a year. Not a bad place at all I was just sick of having to drive to Davenport and all over Eastern Iowa to stay busy. The Iowa City/Coralville/North Liberty is stellar. There are parts of living over here ill miss. CR reminds me of a suburb that lacks the big city.
In the NW Chicago suburbs now (by where my wife grew up) and it feels a lot like CR except I can be into a real city within an hour (I have to go in a few days/month to my office)
 
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I understand your thoughts about this. In my case, I am a high income earner... so moving out will save me a lot of $ annually. It's ok for me to have a house to come back to and see friends. TBH, there's a good chance I'll be back only 4 or 5 months tops. Maybe that puts me in the "snowbird" classification.
Yeah, I understand your motivations. I think we just disagree on this one. It's obviously usually the high-earners who feel this way. I don't mind the true snowbirds. I get annoyed with the South Dakota / North Dakota people.
 
Maybe an extreme example, and no one is promoting NY, but the tax efficiency of Florida vs NY is bizaare. NY has issues.
New York spends about 2.75 times more per resident than Florida, despite having a smaller population.Latest budget figures (FY 2027)
  • New York State budget: $268.1 billion
  • Florida State budget: $114.5 billion

Population (July 1, 2025 estimates)

  • New York: 20,002,427
  • Florida: 23,462,518
 
Ya, I will pass, don't want to look at that on the top of the windshield considering we only make the drive once a year or so. Must be cheaper if you have a tag.
I would never actually install one on my windshield even if I drove through toll booths every day.

We have an Illinois and a Kansas sticker. They are each on a small piece of plexiglass with a couple suction cups and when needed we just stick it to the windshield and take it off when we aren't traveling. You could also use the cling wrap plastic method to temporarily put it on the windshield. Some people claim they even work if you just set it on the dash or even toss it in a cup holder. I think if you have one assigned to your car but it ends up reading your plate you still get the discounted price - although at some point maybe they cut you off.
 
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Sorry in advance for the novel.
Wow, didn't think this would get so many replies lol, but I've read all of them and appreciate the input.
It might be a dumb reason, but I have been trying to stay away from the Eastern time zone because I watch a lot of sports and don't want them to start even later.
I think I would have to find a new job because the company I work for wouldn't let me do my role fully remotely.
I have been thinking it'd be nice to go somewhere that I already know at least one person, so my options would be
-Tennessee (near Memphis, which I've heard mixed opinions about)
-Boise (I have been and it's beautiful, but not sure about the dating scene for non-Mormons lol)
-Colorado Springs (love Colorado but don't think their winters are much milder)
-Dallas (pretty open to Texas, have been several times and enjoyed it. Have a few college friends in Austin)
-South Carolina (have been once but eastern time zone lol)
-Minneapolis (I like Minnesota but climate would not be better)

Idk, I've also been thinking maybe Sacramento area because I just visited a friend there a few weeks ago and it was awesome, and seems less congested and crazy than SoCal. But he's moving to Vegas next year so wouldn't know anyone then. I've been trying to find some good guides/quizzes that will help me narrow it down but haven't had a ton of luck.
Colorado Springs winters are awesome. Way milder than Iowa. Lived there for three winters and there was maybe one week where it was really cold and snow stayed on the ground. Usually it would snow a lot of days, but typically melted the same day with highs reaching 40-50.

Basically summer was really hot. Low humidity, but plenty of days 95+ through the summer. The dryness at times was a little sad. Things would get pretty brown. I really like rain, so that part got old.
 
Im actually closing on a house in Beaverdale tomorrow after being in CR(Hiawatha) for a year. Not a bad place at all I was just sick of having to drive to Davenport and all over Eastern Iowa to stay busy. The Iowa City/Coralville/North Liberty is stellar. There are parts of living over here ill miss. CR reminds me of a suburb that lacks the big city.

CR is imo the definition of 'if you know you know' for folks in the area that grew up there.

City/urbanish but a small town feel.
 
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I am and have been well aware of it, I just think it's an entitled, selfish perspective and our society needs to figure out collectivism a bit better. Dodging taxes while still enjoying the benefits of those taxes is a ****** thing to do.
Tax avoidance is not selfish. It's American.

Do you have a traditional IRA at work? You are dodging taxes. If you have a Roth IRA, you are dodging taxes.

Each state determines it's revenue/tax sources and hopefully covers expenses. Obviously some states do a better job of controlling costs. Competition between states is a good thing, just like industry or sports.

If you want collectivism, you are probably living in the wrong country.
 
Didn’t read the whole thread but as a nearly 40 year old stuck in Iowa due to family issues, do it. Travel around and pick a place. Nobody on here is going to be able to value the same things that you do or pick up the vibe you want. My suggestions are the Carolina’s or west coast in the US.

Absolutely do not be afraid of moving to another country if you can find a job. Remote from anywhere or quality of life in Europe. There is value in free healthcare and mandated leave.

**** what anyone thinks. Just do it. You’re in a position where if you don’t like it, you go somewhere else. Figure it out before you get tied down.
 
Tax avoidance is not selfish. It's American.

Do you have a traditional IRA at work? You are dodging taxes. If you have a Roth IRA, you are dodging taxes.

Each state determines it's revenue/tax sources and hopefully covers expenses. Obviously some states do a better job of controlling costs. Competition between states is a good thing, just like industry or sports.

If you want collectivism, you are probably living in the wrong country.
There’s tax policy that can target this though to open up housing. Just levy it on out of state property owners.
 
Just got out of a long-term relationship a few months ago and I've been thinking about moving out of Iowa now that I have nothing tying me down.
I wanted to hear from others who have left where you ended up, if you have any advice about picking a place to live, etc.
I'm thinking somewhere with mild winters, relatively close to mountains or beaches, good job market and lots of people around my age (30s). My current job is as a Product Owner at an insurance company so thinking it would be relatively easy to find something similar in a bigger city.
Thanks!

Move to CO. It doesn't have to be Denver. Front range has options. If you want outdoors/mountains you'll be happy. There are times I'm driving my kid to school and get caught looking at the mountains... truly beautiful. As other's have said the alum situation is great as well. I used to live in Denver but moved south due to kids / space needed. I'm not moving back to IA.
 
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Sorry in advance for the novel.
Wow, didn't think this would get so many replies lol, but I've read all of them and appreciate the input.
It might be a dumb reason, but I have been trying to stay away from the Eastern time zone because I watch a lot of sports and don't want them to start even later.
I think I would have to find a new job because the company I work for wouldn't let me do my role fully remotely.
I have been thinking it'd be nice to go somewhere that I already know at least one person, so my options would be
-Tennessee (near Memphis, which I've heard mixed opinions about)
-Boise (I have been and it's beautiful, but not sure about the dating scene for non-Mormons lol)
-Colorado Springs (love Colorado but don't think their winters are much milder)
-Dallas (pretty open to Texas, have been several times and enjoyed it. Have a few college friends in Austin)
-South Carolina (have been once but eastern time zone lol)
-Minneapolis (I like Minnesota but climate would not be better)

Idk, I've also been thinking maybe Sacramento area because I just visited a friend there a few weeks ago and it was awesome, and seems less congested and crazy than SoCal. But he's moving to Vegas next year so wouldn't know anyone then. I've been trying to find some good guides/quizzes that will help me narrow it down but haven't had a ton of luck.

When I mentioned this post to my wife, her first response was "Idaho". We haven't been, but know at least two couples who have relocated to Idaho from Iowa and adore it. And as I said, gives you all the upside of hiking, wilderness, outdoor activities. However it will be one step cooler in comparison to say, Colorado -- but still milder than Iowa.

Colorado is crazy milder in winter than Iowa. They still get snow in the winter, sometimes large quantity, but often it melts away within 2-3 days. It can also be quite a bit hotter in the summer -- you're closer to the sun man -- but never as humid as Iowa.
 
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Sorry in advance for the novel.
Wow, didn't think this would get so many replies lol, but I've read all of them and appreciate the input.
It might be a dumb reason, but I have been trying to stay away from the Eastern time zone because I watch a lot of sports and don't want them to start even later.
I think I would have to find a new job because the company I work for wouldn't let me do my role fully remotely.
I have been thinking it'd be nice to go somewhere that I already know at least one person, so my options would be
-Tennessee (near Memphis, which I've heard mixed opinions about)
-Boise (I have been and it's beautiful, but not sure about the dating scene for non-Mormons lol)
-Colorado Springs (love Colorado but don't think their winters are much milder)
-Dallas (pretty open to Texas, have been several times and enjoyed it. Have a few college friends in Austin)
-South Carolina (have been once but eastern time zone lol)
-Minneapolis (I like Minnesota but climate would not be better)

Idk, I've also been thinking maybe Sacramento area because I just visited a friend there a few weeks ago and it was awesome, and seems less congested and crazy than SoCal. But he's moving to Vegas next year so wouldn't know anyone then. I've been trying to find some good guides/quizzes that will help me narrow it down but haven't had a ton of luck.

What's a bit interesting in my experience is if you move to an area that's transient the ability to reinvent yourself and merge with the local culture is easier. There isn't a "gatekeeper"

SoCal. Vegas.

Places where the population doesn't move has higher walls and more history to overcome when trying to integrate.
 
Agree, I live in south end currently. Avg age is like 25, rail trail is great - you really do have to go out for things to do.
Lots of ppl who move to CLT expecting loads of things to do are typically disappointed.
Feels like apt pricing has hit a critical mass and prices seem to have calmed a bit. Around 2023 or so you got wait listed for a number of south end apts. inventory def up
2023 is when I decided to buy a house outside of the metro area. Rent prices kept going up to the point I decided it would be less painful to have a mortgage payment that is about the same as or less than rent.
 
After grad school I moved to Wenatchee, WA for a term (18 month) job. Had no plans on staying. Thirty-two years later, we're still here. Wenatchee is ideally located in the rain shadow of the Cascades. It's dry here, but you can be in sage brush and wheat fields to the east, and it's a 10 minute drive to ponderosa pine forests. Every thursday I leave my office at 4:00 for a 4:30 mountain bike ride with a small group. Similarly, in the winter you can be at the ski slopes within 30 minutes. We have the Columbia River right in town for watersports. Great salmon fishing (when its open), etc. etc. We have good breweries and wineries. We used to frequent Bend, OR, for these things, but we have it all here. The Wenatchee/Leavenworth mountain biking trails are world class.

That said, its getting hotter and drier. You can pretty much count on weeks to months of smoke every year from wildfires. Housing is expensive. Gas prices are really high. But wages tend to keep up.

Now that I'm nearing retirement, I've been starting to peruse Zillow in the Post Falls / Coeur d'Alene area. They get about twice the precipitation, more trees, and opportunities for a decent sized piece of property for elbow room. Lower prices just due to being in Idaho. For the purposes of the OP, CdA is close enough to Spokane that you could have a better chance of finding work.
 
After grad school I moved to Wenatchee, WA for a term (18 month) job. Had no plans on staying. Thirty-two years later, we're still here. Wenatchee is ideally located in the rain shadow of the Cascades. It's dry here, but you can be in sage brush and wheat fields to the east, and it's a 10 minute drive to ponderosa pine forests. Every thursday I leave my office at 4:00 for a 4:30 mountain bike ride with a small group. Similarly, in the winter you can be at the ski slopes within 30 minutes. We have the Columbia River right in town for watersports. Great salmon fishing (when its open), etc. etc. We have good breweries and wineries. We used to frequent Bend, OR, for these things, but we have it all here. The Wenatchee/Leavenworth mountain biking trails are world class.

That said, its getting hotter and drier. You can pretty much count on weeks to months of smoke every year from wildfires. Housing is expensive. Gas prices are really high. But wages tend to keep up.

Now that I'm nearing retirement, I've been starting to peruse Zillow in the Post Falls / Coeur d'Alene area. They get about twice the precipitation, more trees, and opportunities for a decent sized piece of property for elbow room. Lower prices just due to being in Idaho. For the purposes of the OP, CdA is close enough to Spokane that you could have a better chance of finding work.
I spent some time in Hood River/The Dalles and this sounds a lot like it.
 
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It doesn't have "a lot" of rain, it's just a grey, misty drizzle from like November to March. The no sun thing is legit though and it really bothers some people, it just doesn't bother me personally.
To me that sounds perfect. The sun is an evil bastard! I love dark cloudy days. Just wish WA was more affordable.
 
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After grad school I moved to Wenatchee, WA for a term (18 month) job. Had no plans on staying. Thirty-two years later, we're still here. Wenatchee is ideally located in the rain shadow of the Cascades. It's dry here, but you can be in sage brush and wheat fields to the east, and it's a 10 minute drive to ponderosa pine forests. Every thursday I leave my office at 4:00 for a 4:30 mountain bike ride with a small group. Similarly, in the winter you can be at the ski slopes within 30 minutes. We have the Columbia River right in town for watersports. Great salmon fishing (when its open), etc. etc. We have good breweries and wineries. We used to frequent Bend, OR, for these things, but we have it all here. The Wenatchee/Leavenworth mountain biking trails are world class.

That said, its getting hotter and drier. You can pretty much count on weeks to months of smoke every year from wildfires. Housing is expensive. Gas prices are really high. But wages tend to keep up.

Now that I'm nearing retirement, I've been starting to peruse Zillow in the Post Falls / Coeur d'Alene area. They get about twice the precipitation, more trees, and opportunities for a decent sized piece of property for elbow room. Lower prices just due to being in Idaho. For the purposes of the OP, CdA is close enough to Spokane that you could have a better chance of finding work.
Beautiful area. Kinda' in the plume (ash fallout) area from Mount St. Helens.