RTT...20-20 hindsight.

You never end up not helping to supporting them, it's part of being a parent. Our three are between 30 and 40 and we still help out, even though they all have great paying jobs. I am just glad we can provide the help when they need it.
 
You never end up not helping to supporting them, it's part of being a parent. Our three are between 30 and 40 and we still help out, even though they all have great paying jobs. I am just glad we can provide the help when they need it.
I am never more thankful for my parents than I am now as they are paying for my lawyer (at least for now).
 
So I met this lady at the bar the other night, introduction and a short conversation, asked where I live and what I do for work and stuff, and she told me the same things about her, she seemed kinda interested. I've noticed her once before in here, said she works in my town sometimes, but that she doesn't go out that often after work.

I'm still kinda processing moving on from breaking up with my ex a couple months ago (mutual), but I also don't want to squander an opportunity. Just not sure when I'll see her again. I did search for her on Facebook, first name and city, and she was the very first result, but I feel that it would be weird to message her.
 
So I met this lady at the bar the other night, introduction and a short conversation, asked where I live and what I do for work and stuff, and she told me the same things about her, she seemed kinda interested. I've noticed her once before in here, said she works in my town sometimes, but that she doesn't go out that often after work.

I'm still kinda processing moving on from breaking up with my ex a couple months ago (mutual), but I also don't want to squander an opportunity. Just not sure when I'll see her again. I did search for her on Facebook, first name and city, and she was the very first result, but I feel that it would be weird to message her.
Every shot you don't take is one that you can't make. Were you bartending that night or just in the bar? mutual conversation I'd vote message her.
 
So I met this lady at the bar the other night, introduction and a short conversation, asked where I live and what I do for work and stuff, and she told me the same things about her, she seemed kinda interested. I've noticed her once before in here, said she works in my town sometimes, but that she doesn't go out that often after work.

I'm still kinda processing moving on from breaking up with my ex a couple months ago (mutual), but I also don't want to squander an opportunity. Just not sure when I'll see her again. I did search for her on Facebook, first name and city, and she was the very first result, but I feel that it would be weird to message her.
Do you want her as a friend?? I’m guessing no. If she rarely comes in then you can either wait a long time or realize that you can ask her and would rarely see her if she said no.
 
Well she's seen you live last wk so that should count.
I mean i haven't updated my profile pic in at least 15 years and I was gonna anyway because I was gonna get on their dating thing.

And yeah she initiated most of the conversation and a lady isn't gonna reveal where she lives and works to a stranger in a bar if she didn't feel comfortable doing that.
 
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