I'm shocked you guys co slept! You were a car seat safety nazi so I assumed that applied for sleep too lol. I was very anti co sleeping until my 1st drove me nearly insane with 30-45 min stretches. Wish the US would approach it with a less abstinence and more reality approach. We did some dangerous **** with the 1st avoiding bed co sleeping. Made different choices 2nd time. Now that near 4yr old climbs in every night about 3am and asks so kindly "will you please snuggle me??" And how do I resist?
I was a car seat safety nazi! I have a fundamental disagreement with @Mr Janny over whether our youngest still needs to be in a booster, so that's not gone away or anything!
We had TERRRRRRRIBLE sleepers. I could never do cry-it-out methods, just didn't agree with it for our house, and so our eldest finally just got into bed by attrition. With our youngest, he was in a little co-sleeper thing for a while until he could roll over, and then after that we took the side off a crib and attached it to the bed sidecar. (It was all pushed up against the wall flush and then the bed against it, so there were no gaps.)
It's also amazing how the circumcision thing is different in different parts of the US, and especially vs Europe.