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How old are the kids? I have one toddler so I'm a noob compared to you. But - my time to workout is like my church time. When it wasn't negative bajillion, taking the toddler for stroller runs was a good way to combine tasks. We have an unfinished basement with some toys - much of the time toddler just wants someone near kinda watching him play so I'd bring my weights to the basement and workout while he rode his bike or whatever. For a while we'd get up Saturday mornings, let Dad sleep in and toddler got Elmo time while I did a 45 min circuit. One day a week I'd get up at 5:30-6 to workout before baby got up. That sucked but it felt good when I was done. You're gone almost 12 hours a day though, that's pretty hard. When I still went to the office, I'd do a class 1x a week on the way home but that only pushed me to 6:45. Can you do lunch stuff? Not ideal though if you need to shower or clean up.
As a kid we spent many hours riding around in the basement on our tricycles.
 
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Not exactly sure.
I was an early adopter of FiberOne bars when they hit the market, but I quickly noticed they went too far. Hard to work in a cube farm and keep that kind of pressure inside you all day. After that, I learned that any sort of "health" bar that talks about having high fiber usually accomplishes it by adding chicory root fiber. That's the substance that makes me bloat like a dead whale. I stay away from anything with that in it.


Drink two shakes/day of this stuff with milk and a high protein diet. I am amazed that my lifting partner was still engaged with his now wife after a couple months of that.

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Does anyone know of a good food app to use? Reading through this, I definitely need to track my diet better. However, when ever I have tried using one, I find it tedious to fill out every meal. I cook a lot of my food in our household, and the idea of trying to figure out the amount of calories of every ingredient I put in to a dish is tedious.
 

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Does anyone know of a good food app to use? Reading through this, I definitely need to track my diet better. However, when ever I have tried using one, I find it tedious to fill out every meal. I cook a lot of my food in our household, and the idea of trying to figure out the amount of calories of every ingredient I put in to a dish is tedious.

I use My Fitness Pal. There is a function on there to import recipes -- if it's a recipe online you can put the URL in and then adjust ingredients or you can manually put them in. Takes some time, but I've used it a lot lately and it's helpful.
 

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I use My Fitness Pal. There is a function on there to import recipes -- if it's a recipe online you can put the URL in and then adjust ingredients or you can manually put them in. Takes some time, but I've used it a lot lately and it's helpful.

I've used that one before a long time ago, maybe I'll give it another try.
 
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I've used that one before a long time ago, maybe I'll give it another try.
Fooducate is another good one. I've used both at one point or another and both work well.
 
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Another thing that helps with weight loss..

There is a company called Walden Farms and they sell condiments that are sugar free , calorie free, fat free, etc. Check your local grocery stores to see if they stock it. If not, order it online. I used these when I was training and they work really well.
 

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There is truly not much else that can top the nastiness of when my wife "drops friends off at the pool"
The smell can literally damage the paint on the walls.
 

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I use My Fitness Pal. There is a function on there to import recipes -- if it's a recipe online you can put the URL in and then adjust ingredients or you can manually put them in. Takes some time, but I've used it a lot lately and it's helpful.


same. It's a bit annoying when starting out but once you create your own recipes or common meals, it's pretty quick to do.
 
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It sounds blasé, but you just have to commit the time. I started my fitness journey right after we had our second. Getting up at 5am to workout when you have a 4 month old is a challenge. Once we got through the newborn phase and he was sleeping all night, it was that much easier.

You also may need to give up other hobbies. There is enough time to workout during the day if you’re committed. But maybe you don’t have time to watch every sports game, or have to cut back screen time, or whatever. You also need buy-in from your spouse so she knows why you’re getting up early and need to get to bed at a decent hour. I’ve had to give up reading books during this phase of life. Just not enough time to read and get to bed early enough. I just prioritized fitness over that particular hobby.

For me, with kids, I have to do my workout before everyone wakes up. If I try to wait until the end of the day either someone’s having a meltdown or I’m exhausted. It’s tough when my alarm clock goes off, the house is cold, and everyone is still sleeping, but once you build that habit, it will get easier. Mornings may not be your time, you have to determine that. Just find the time that works best and stick to it. Consistency is key.

Hell, I’m sitting here about to go to the gym at 4:45am when it’s 20 below outside. I actually look forward to days like today because it means fewer people at the gym. Pre-2019 me would not do this in a million years. Even getting up at 6am to workout before then would be a non-starter for the old me.
My advice for parents with kids that worry about staying in shape is to get your kids involved in sports and volunteer to coach as much as you can. Since most of these groups are desperate for volunteers to coach, they'll probably give you dibs on practice times if that's the difference between you doing it or not.

It might not exactly be some hardcore workout, but running around with kids a few hours a week will burn some good calories and gives you priceless time with your kids. I do like 30-40 minutes of lifting 3 times a week but literally have done no cardio outside of coaching, or playing ball with my kids in the last 3-4 years, and at 44 am still in good shape. I also like to keep it simple when it comes to diet. Plenty of water, plenty of protein, and avoid added sugar.
 
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As someone who used to buy/consume protein powders regularly, it blows my mind how popular they are. And how many people think they need them.

To those of you who track your macros, do you really ever have trouble hitting your protein goals for the day? Hell I had to cut back on protein even after I eliminated the shakes. You know, you don't need 250 g protein every day. 150g or so has been proven to be more than enough for most men not training for worlds strongest man.

Instead, eat higher protein meals (which you should be doing anyway, right?) and you'll hit your targets every day. If you're cutting weight, a shake takes the place of solid food-- making you more hungry. If you're bulking up, I could see it, but typically protein deficiency isn't the main issue.
 

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Whatever you chose to do, do something that’s repeatable and something you can do consistently. Takes time to make the gains you want so commit to something you can tackle at first and build from there.

FUN. Do something you find to be FUN. If it is FUN, you will keep doing it (ie repeatable).

If it is NOT FUN, then eventually your willpower will go away and you will stop.

Whatever FUN is for you, do that. Golf, running, lifting, pickup hoops, martial arts, does not matter. Just do what you enjoy.

Good luck!
 

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FUN. Do something you find to be FUN. If it is FUN, you will keep doing it (ie repeatable).

If it is NOT FUN, then eventually your willpower will go away and you will stop.

Whatever FUN is for you, do that. Golf, running, lifting, pickup hoops, martial arts, does not matter. Just do what you enjoy.

Good luck!
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My advice for parents with kids that worry about staying in shape is to get your kids involved in sports and volunteer to coach as much as you can. Since most of these groups are desperate for volunteers to coach, they'll probably give you dibs on practice times if that's the difference between you doing it or not.

It might not exactly be some hardcore workout, but running around with kids a few hours a week will burn some good calories and gives you priceless time with your kids. I do like 30-40 minutes of lifting 3 times a week but literally have done no cardio outside of coaching, or playing ball with my kids in the last 3-4 years, and at 44 am still in good shape. I also like to keep it simple when it comes to diet. Plenty of water, plenty of protein, and avoid added sugar.

Agree and a great idea. Also, if you're a new parent, give you self some grace. If you have a new baby and are getting poor quality and low quantity sleep, right now might not be the best time to start a new workout program. If you can do it, great. But, if not, know that things will get better and you will have more time in the coming months. Do the best you can now and add more workout time as your parent schedule allows. (This is more for the OP than you, of course.)
 

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My advice to someone with toddlers is to wait a couple of years. When they're 4+, you can do your morning workout and not have to worry that someone might die if they get out of bed while you're busy.
 
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