With our current two it would be hell. Our first one was an absolute champ when we would drive between Wichita and Cedar Rapids. Most complaining he ever did was when we put this cover on the backseat to keep him from shedding all over it. So that was quickly removed and he went right to sleep. Hell he didn't even whine when we spun out on I-70.
I had to stop for a second because I thought you were talking about your kids.
MIL usually hosts Thanksgiving, but she just had surgery last week, and she needs to be resting for 3-6 weeks. So who volunteered to cook? The husband. He's a good cook, he can follow instructions, and a pretty good problem solver. I have to work. I volunteered to go shopping and pick up any food/ingredients that are needed. Sooooo, we'll see how this turns out for husband, with minimal assistance, cooking for 11 people.
Christmas will be 15 people as husband's youngest brother comes down from Sioux Falls with his family. (That SIL is a nurse, so I know they've been taking precautions)
I believe husband will once again make himself available to make the Christmas candies like he did last year.