If you have any family members, inlaws, or whatever, that you are forced to spend some time with off and on; do you prefer to force general small talk or just sit in silence and talk to those that you feel you can carry a conversation with? I don't have issues sitting in silence for hours at a time (when I'm in the field or hauling grain, I rarely have a radio on and am absorbed in my work or am just patient) and not talking to just talk. Ive been told recently that some people feel I'm just ignoring them because I may just talk to my kids or a few other people and not talk with them. I have no common interests with them and honestly don't even care for them that much, so I just hang out. I don't care if they don't talk to me.
I try and be as cordial as possible trying to find common ground and am successful in most cases. One of my GFILs is getting more and more cranky as he ages. Everything comes back to politics (far right wing for him) and I just don't have the care to debate with someone that doesn't want to or care about other viewpoints.
I think I posted it here but my story the other day about a discussion on insanely loud leaf blowers being outlawed in some places made us "wimps" in his eyes. Whatevs dude.