I was born and raised Lutheran, my wife was born and raised, period. A very long time ago I had concerns about her never having been baptized, but I've since gotten over it. For her to be baptized now would be a sham to hedge bets on an afterlife that no one can really prove, just as if we were to baptize my kids now it'd be a sham since I have no belief in the church or religion in general anymore. My kids will be educated in Christianity, Science, and Humanities and may even attend Sunday school when old enough, though we'll definitely have discussions about what they learn afterwards. If they are ever to be baptized, I'd like them to be baptized by their own free choice as a decision they've made. Maybe by then the church will have evolved enough that I'd be willing to consider going back, but I doubt it. If anything, I see the Church hunkering down on the wrong side of core issues/values that matter to me and how I'll raise my family.
I guess after all that I should mention that I met my wife on a Luther League trip in NOLA nearly 16 years ago, and we were married by my retired pastor (college classmate of my father) who took me to the convention (my parents wanted this). This July we'll have been together half of our lives, though we've only been married for 5 years (we lived together for 8 years before that).