My 16 year old daughter was a terrific athlete, but put a girl on the floor during an AAU basketball game. It was over the top, but it happened. Nothing I could have said could have made her feel worse, she felt horrible. But it happened. Instead of grilling her, I let it pass and she never did it again. In this case, best thing for LJ is to let him play football. You don't want to ruin his career by dwelling on this. He knows what happened and is living it. Let it pass...