I feel its implicit in the mom's statement to the effect that SL should have behaved like he's wrestling a team mate. Some will say that only had to do with the post match, but I don't read it that way.
I don’t see that at all.
This is what she saw, IMO:
Her son wrestled a teammate. After the match was over, she saw said teammate push her son’s face down as he stood up and stood over her son like a dog. THEN she sees the teammate barely shake her son’s hand, stare her son down from behind as he walks off the mat, mouth to the corner while pointing in her son’s direction. Pause, and do it again.
Lee didn’t want to be out there, period. He’s not taking a MFF though. Just not who he is. He gave Ayala the opportunity to not get embarrassed, and he said “no”. Lee gave him “what he wanted”.
Nobody, Mom included, would have made any mention of this match beyond the score had there not been any post match “stuff”. She wasn’t implying Lee should take it easy on her son at all. Just the respect one gives to a teammate regardless of situation.
That’s my read on it.