I have complained about refs all my life, and will continue. The other day, a ref tried to hand me a whistle. I had barely complained at all, just commented softly on one blown play. He couldn't possibly have heard me. I moved from Iowa which complains constantly about refs to a location where the town has a taboo on complaining about refs and therefore gives the home team no home court advantage. They barely cheer also. On this point, I am proud to be Iowan. The fans complaining about the refs normally helps keep the refs trying hard to do their job. If the fans let up, the opposing fans won't. Here we have opposing fans that come onto our home court and make it theirs. That makes me disgusted. It is hard for me to fathom. But it is the attitude of lots of people.
So you are saying that he randomly tried to hand you a whistle? That's actually very strange behavior.