okay, I always tell them that if I was hitting on them I would have slapped them on the arse. Usually gets a good response.Hey bit*h will work, but depends on the response you're hoping for. At least they won't think you're hitting on them.
I once had a woman tell me she didn’t want to have sex in indirect terms and I wasnt hitting on her and no way would anyone, but her, would think talking to them about how they had been and what they have for kids and such was hitting on her. I went to school with her that’s how those things came up.