Agreed. I played 3 sports in HS and I now have two small children. With the way youth sports are nowadays, I'm indifferent as to if they get involved. They need to be active and productive, but sports doesn't have to be the outlet for that.
I have a nephew who is in youth hockey (12 yrs old). For my brother and his wife, their sons hockey schedule is their life. They skip major family events (like Christmas) for hockey. My brother attends 3, 2 hr practices each week and all the games. Every weekend they're driving 2+ hrs for some tournament, sometimes 6+ hrs. Between hotel expenses, gas, gear (his son is a goalie), registrations, and food, my brother estimated he spends $5,000-$10,000 a year just on youth hockey. I get that many of these things are by choice, and to each their own. But to me, it does not make me interested in getting my kids involved in youth sports. I don't want my kids sports schedule to dictate life for the whole family.