Trying to figure this one out. I have a female friend that is 24, she had been seeing a guy that was 34. He hit her and shoved her numerous times. I also need to note that I work with her and after the Iowa/Iowa State game, this jerk got into a fight with a bunch of her friends in Cedar Rapids. She called me crying and I went and picked her up. I told her she didn't deserve someone like that in her life. So she was staying with me the last week and a half and then went back to him. She said she was doing it for herself. How else can I try to help her see the light of day?? Any advice, I'm open too.Thanks!!