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    There she goes....

    So me and my girlfriend ended up breaking up last night. It was one of the hardest things ever. In this process i found she lied to me multiple times. She told me that her mom wanted her to move back into her, and that was a lie. I ended up calling her mom last night and her mom told me she knew nothing of why she even moved back in with her. She just said that she was afriad to hurt my feelings, but i would rather hear the truth than a lie. She took all of her stuff over to her moms two days ago. I broke down horribly last night and it was just difficult. She kept telling me she needed time, even though i did nothing wrong. She was the one who cheated on me. She should be comforting me. I gave my heart and soul to this girl and she kind of ****** on me.


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    Re: There she goes....

    You deserve better. Bottom line.


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    Re: There she goes....

    Sounds bad, but at least she's lying to you as you break up. That's just confirmation she isn't the perfect girl for you, she's not worth your time or your trust.


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    Re: There she goes....

    Much better fish in the sea...



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    Re: There she goes....

    Sorry to hear that. These situations are never easy but trust me, someone much better is out there for you. Just be patient. For now, everyday that goes by is one more day that this is all behind you.


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    Re: There she goes....

    Quote Originally Posted by Cyclones01 View Post
    Although the situation is not completely the same, I understand somewhat what you're going through. Right before I graduated high school, my girlfriend of four years betrayed my trust. She didn't cheat on me physically, but honestly, she might as well have. I found out she was talking to this guy who was about 27 (we were 18) and some of the messages they were sending each other were completely inappropriate. There's a lot more to it than that (she'd known the guy for years, close friend, etc.) but I won't get into that as it's irrelevant to the point I want to make. When I confronted her about it, she ended up breaking up with me. Up until then, I thought we were destined to get married. It was the hardest thing I've ever had to deal with. But then I went to college and grew up a lot. I realize now that even though it was hard to go through, it's the best thing that ever happened to me. We both needed to grow up. I promise you, it's impossible to see the forest through the trees. Eventually you will see the bigger picture. You're probably tired of hearing this, but you're still young (I thought I read 18 from the other thread). I know it sucks right now, but life will go on, and if you don't end up with her, you will end up with someone else who makes you just as happy as she did. Count on it
    Sounds fimliar to whats going on here


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    Re: There she goes....

    Dude, I think everybody has a story like this and they all suck. Nobody deserves being cheated on and it's better it ends now. Those kinds of situations only bring pain and it's better to end sooner than later.




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    Re: There she goes....

    Quote Originally Posted by pyrocyz View Post
    Much better fish in the sea...
    Sounds like she did you a favor instead of getting married, cheating, then divorced.

    She must have liked you since she continued to tell you stories.

    This is a little bit like how players walked out on Greg. Out of the blue.


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    Re: There she goes....

    Sounds like it ended like it needed to end and you can move on.

    However, before demonizing her, remember, at the end point of all this, and both of you are scared and confused, probably moving emotionally up to down. Not a good situation for rational discussions.

    While not an excuse, while cornered, she just continues to make one mistake then another. If she is trying to save your relationship, she may even become to scared to tell the truth and one lie leads to another.

    Not an excuse in any means, just remember the situation before you come to a final judgment, the old "throwing the first stone" advice. Not suggesting you change, or excuse anything, just perspectives.



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    Re: There she goes....

    Definitely sorry for the pain, but is surely sounds like you're going to be better off without her.

    And what mjones said is dead right. Everyone has a story like this, but it makes the actual right woman much, much better


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    Re: There she goes....

    The best revenge is living well.
    That and finding her best friend and giving her a go.


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    Re: There she goes....

    start dating her hottest friend!



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    Quote Originally Posted by GeronimusClone View Post
    The best revenge is living well.
    That and finding her best friend and giving her a go.
    I would never do that


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    Quote Originally Posted by Clones21 View Post
    I would never do that
    To each their own.


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    Re: There she goes....

    Hire this guy....




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