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    Re: Relationships

    Nope. Nor do I look at hers.


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    Re: Relationships

    Are you married? If not, than I'd suggest finding another g/f. If she is that insecure you are asking for a life full of unnecessary fighting.


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    Re: Relationships

    No. None of that.



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    Re: Relationships

    Not a chance.



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    We have read each other's email, not regularily, but its not uncommon. If you have nothing to hide I wouldn't worry about it. Been married for 5 years this summer and dated for 7 before that.


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    No, we do not snoop into each other at all. I trust her more than any single person on earth.


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    Re: Relationships

    Quote Originally Posted by Go2Guy View Post
    Does your wife / sig other insist on browsing through your email in/out box, and cell phone contact list? And are you required to provide a detailed explanation for every person she feels suspicious of?

    Just wondering as I try to deal with my situation. I got nothing to hide, but she insecurities seem kind of over the top / not normal.
    No, but then again I don't give her any reason to do so. If she were to look at my last 50 calls or so, the only ladies that she's going to find are her, my mom, my sister, or mutual friends. I've even told her about a few ladies that show up in my Facebook account that she wouldn't recognize and she insists I don't have to explain them to her.


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    Of course we also both leave our email/phones out in public view. She can look at everything of mine. I guess since we never hide anything, there is no reason to be suspicious.


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    Hell no! And if my wife got the idea that she had that right, she could sleep on the couch until reason got the better sense of her. Those are some serious trust issues.



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    Re: Relationships

    Honestly, I would be worried about the apparent lack of trust if she insists on seeing those things, especially if you haven't given her any reason to be suspicious. It's not a good sign.


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    So alothough you attempt"ed to say you didn"t understnad, now you do. Fair enough?

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    Re: Relationships

    I would also say get a new girlfriend as she sounds like the extremely jealous type



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    I should also clarify that my wife kind of works for me so checking my emails is part of what she does.


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    Nope. Although both of us know that we could ask each other anything if something did feel a little "off".



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    If my wife asked I'd toss her my phone and answer every question she has. I've got nothing to hide.


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