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    Re: Husband emails wife "no sex" spreadsheet

    Quote Originally Posted by isuno1fan View Post
    She obviously doesn't understand love, honor, and OBEY.

    JK

    sorta
    There's a really good reason why those specific words aren't used in many modern marriage vows. I prefer "respect"...from both sides.

    Not seeing much of that from either of these two people. He charts their love life (useful when you're trying to conceive, but not when you're trying to keep score) and emails it to her. She posts it on a public website. Not a lot of intimacy going on there - and it's intimacy that leads to lovemaking, not "WOMAN, I said NOW"...

    (wish I WAS JK)



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    Re: Husband emails wife "no sex" spreadsheet

    Some married women treat sex like a reward for good behavior. Thats the wrong way.



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    Re: Husband emails wife "no sex" spreadsheet

    Dude totally needs to work on his oral abilities. Clearly that's the problem in this relationship.



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    Re: Husband emails wife "no sex" spreadsheet

    Quote Originally Posted by bos View Post
    Some married women treat sex like a reward for good behavior. Thats the wrong way.
    I agree. :)



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    Re: Husband emails wife "no sex" spreadsheet

    Quote Originally Posted by bos View Post
    Some married women treat sex like a reward for good behavior. Thats the wrong way.
    You'd be a lot less frustrated if you'd just behave.



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    Re: Husband emails wife "no sex" spreadsheet

    I wonder what the next excuse she will have after she received that spreadsheet.



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    Re: Husband emails wife "no sex" spreadsheet

    Quote Originally Posted by IcSyU View Post
    You'd be a lot less frustrated if you'd just behave.

    I refuse!

    Funny, I came home yesterday in a great mood. Wife asked if I had sex. (good question honestly, because what man doesnt walk on clouds after) but alas it was a no.



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    Re: Husband emails wife "no sex" spreadsheet

    Quote Originally Posted by buf87 View Post
    I wonder what the next excuse she will have after she received that spreadsheet.

    The divorce is taking up too much of her free time?


    Tell you what, if I sent that to my wife, I would go from once a year on my birthday to negative 5.



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    Re: Husband emails wife "no sex" spreadsheet

    lol at this...

    I really don't think its too big of deal. We as a society track everything else. Excercise, Food we eat, money etc...
    I am guessing he had a couple years of frustration from it, decided he would make her mad to prove a point. And he knew it would make her mad. There has got to be a lot of damage in that relationship.
    I would like to know more.
    What jobs do they have?
    What hours they work?
    Do they have kids?
    Financial situation?
    Medical issues?

    Because those factors would play into the problem.

    If you had 3 kids, was 30 pounds overweight and couldn't pay bills sex is probably not high on the list.


    Last edited by HandSanitizer; 07-24-2014 at 09:39 AM.

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    Re: Husband emails wife "no sex" spreadsheet

    I would say it's largely his own fault for taking a run at it every day. Overplaying his hand a bit...



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    Re: Husband emails wife "no sex" spreadsheet

    Quote Originally Posted by bos View Post
    The divorce is taking up too much of her free time?


    Tell you what, if I sent that to my wife, I would go from once a year on my birthday to negative 5.
    How could you be negati...nevermind.



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    Re: Husband emails wife "no sex" spreadsheet

    Quote Originally Posted by HandSanitizer View Post
    lol at this...

    I really don't think its too big of deal. We as a society track everything else. Excercise, Food we eat, money etc...
    I am guessing he had a couple years of frustration from it, decided he would make her mad to prove a point. And he knew it would make her mad. There has got to be a lot of damage in that relationship.
    I would like to know more.
    What jobs do they have?
    What hours they work?
    Do they have kids?
    Financial situation?
    Medical issues?

    Because those factors would play into the problem.

    If you had 3 kids, was 30 pounds overweight and couldn't pay bills sex is probably not high on the list.
    Two more things...

    Do they both help out around the house with the chores and kids?
    Do they still date each other?

    The first one people get tired and resent the other if one isn't pitching in. The latter is to keep up the emotional intimacy which can lead to physical intimacy.



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    Re: Husband emails wife "no sex" spreadsheet

    Quote Originally Posted by Cyclonepride View Post
    Honestly, if you are keeping a spreadsheet on this sort of thing, and then giving it to your SO in hopes of getting more, you are proving that you have no idea why you're not getting any.
    She looks like she is up for it about every two to three weeks. He just needs to figure out what to do in the meantime.


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    Re: Husband emails wife "no sex" spreadsheet

    Quote Originally Posted by temperflare View Post
    From the spreadsheet data, his nights alone won't make much of a difference.
    At least he knows where he stands even before he asks. Bug her once every two weeks, not every day.


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    Re: Husband emails wife "no sex" spreadsheet

    They're married and getting it on every 16 days? Not sure what he's complaining about.

    I love that Ray Romano bit about lack of sex in marriage

    "anytime we have sex, the next day I file my quarterly taxes. If it's oral - I renew my license."



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