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    Any Recently Divorced CF'ers?

    After years of issues and months of agonizing I think I've reached "that point". I've visited with two attorneys and the only thing left is to just do it. Anybody else out there gone through this recently or pondering the same?


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    Re: Any Recently Divorced CF'ers?

    From the other threads you have mentioned her in (though I don't remember any recently) I would say just do it. Bite the bullet and do it


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    Re: Any Recently Divorced CF'ers?

    She is in love with Freddy. Move on.



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    Re: Any Recently Divorced CF'ers?

    If she is a giant ***** I would do it.



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    Re: Any Recently Divorced CF'ers?

    Quote Originally Posted by awd4cy View Post
    If she has giant ***** I would share them with CF.
    Fixed it for you.

    I'm expecting this to be a depressing thread



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    Re: Any Recently Divorced CF'ers?

    Quote Originally Posted by awd4cy View Post
    If she is a giant ***** I would do it.
    Everyone who meets her for the first time thinks she's great. She's bubbly and energetic and very nice... to everyone else. I get the leftovers, the gossip, the nagging, etc. We've done counseling 9 years ago when we were in crisis and she stopped going because she decided she was out of crisis, and chose not to work on other personal issues that lead us there. She's saying she wants to go to counseling now, but I don't - I'm done. Just curious if others here have gone through it. A bit worried about the "next step".


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    Re: Any Recently Divorced CF'ers?

    My advice - don't go to the ******* internet for advice.



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    Re: Any Recently Divorced CF'ers?

    Quote Originally Posted by CYphyllis View Post
    My advice - don't go to the ******* internet for advice.
    Well, now I'm curious what type of internet I shouldn't go to.



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    Quote Originally Posted by CYphyllis View Post
    My advice - don't go to the ******* internet for advice.
    Why not? The internet is the greatest invention of all time. It is the only thing EVER created where you can instantly connect with MILLIONS of people from all walks of life, background, race, and countries in one place. Where are you going to get that type of information from just one person? NO WHERE but the internet.

    In 2014 alone there will be an INCREASE of information of 200 exabytes over 2013. To put that in perspective that is more than all data that there was in 2010 available on the internet. In 2015 estimates are near 500 exabytes. 1 exabyte is over a BILLION gigabytes. It is estimated that the human brain is only roughly 1 terabyte large (1000 gigabytes). The internet just added a terabyte in the ten seconds it took me to write this sentence.

    So if you don't go to the internet for advice, then I feel sorry for you.


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    Re: Any Recently Divorced CF'ers?

    If you have kids.....can you live with seeing them part time?

    Maybe you should watch the Dexter series and learn some pointers



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    Re: Any Recently Divorced CF'ers?

    The dating pool will be small for you .... You will be dating other divorced women with kids. If you are that unhappy that you are willing to end it then good luck out there. Grass isn't always greener .....



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    Re: Any Recently Divorced CF'ers?

    Rub your nuts on all her belongings on the way out.



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    Re: Any Recently Divorced CF'ers?

    Quote Originally Posted by ISUCyclones2015 View Post
    Why not? The internet is the greatest invention of all time. It is the only thing EVER created where you can instantly connect with MILLIONS of people from all walks of life, background, race, and countries in one place. Where are you going to get that type of information from just one person? NO WHERE but the internet.

    In 2014 alone there will be an INCREASE of information of 200 exabytes over 2013. To put that in perspective that is more than all data that there was in 2010 available on the internet. In 2015 estimates are near 500 exabytes. 1 exabyte is over a BILLION gigabytes. It is estimated that the human brain is only roughly 1 terabyte large (1000 gigabytes). The internet just added a terabyte in the ten seconds it took me to write this sentence.

    So if you don't go to the internet for advice, then I feel sorry for you.
    Do you understand the difference between good information and the **** you get from the internet? If you don't, then I feel sorry for you.



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    Re: Any Recently Divorced CF'ers?

    Quote Originally Posted by TXCyclones View Post
    After years of issues and months of agonizing I think I've reached "that point". I've visited with two attorneys and the only thing left is to just do it. Anybody else out there gone through this recently or pondering the same?
    Not recently, but been there done that. I am truly sorry you are to this point because I remember like it was yesterday. And I don't wish it on anyone. The entire process is a turd sandwich....and everyone but the attorneys have to take a bite! All I can say is keep your chin up and it might be some cold consulation because it was suppose to be for life....when a door closes....another opens. And that other door for me has been open going on 17 years with 3 beautiful daughters. So it is not the end of the world. Best of luck to you and yours.



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    Re: Any Recently Divorced CF'ers?

    Quote Originally Posted by CYphyllis View Post
    Do you understand the difference between good information and the **** you get from the internet? If you don't, then I feel sorry for you.
    Factor in the anonymity involved, too, where we can just provide anything and pretend it's advice.

    To pile on, volume of information doesn't equate to quality. I feel sorry for people that can't figure that out.


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